# RELATIONSHIPS: Are you faithful? **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [July 31, 2008, 6:40am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440 "2008-07-31T06:40:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![cougarspeed](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cougarspeed/32/7468_2.png) [@cougarspeed](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cougarspeed)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/61 "2008-07-31T08:11:02Z")
> [@originalsin](#): > > ok so let me get a few responses for this. what would be worse. cheating on your fiance just before your wedding or cheating on your husband/wife 4 months after? Cheating on husband/wife 4 months after IMO. ---
**Author:** ![fbrendan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d26b3c/32.png) [@fbrendan](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fbrendan)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/62 "2008-07-31T08:12:38Z")
i’m a good boy. ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/63 "2008-07-31T08:12:41Z")
> [@originalsin](#): > > ok so let me get a few responses for this. what would be worse. cheating on your fiance just before your wedding or cheating on your husband/wife 4 months after? I’d say just before the wedding. Mainly due to the fact that all of your thoughts should be wrapped up in that occasion if you’re really into it. Not banging out some broad. ---
**Author:** ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/64 "2008-07-31T08:14:10Z")
> [@justa4door](#): > > im 100% faithful to my wife .i like this one… but she has told me if i find a JDM “little person” i can smash can you have your wife speak to my fiance’? I’d be very grateful! ---
**Author:** ![cougarspeed](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cougarspeed/32/7468_2.png) [@cougarspeed](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cougarspeed)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/65 "2008-07-31T08:14:40Z")
> [@Paulo](#): > > I’d say just before the wedding. Mainly due to the fact that all of your thoughts should be wrapped up in that occasion if you’re really into it. Not banging out some broad. Hmmm I think they are both shitty but IMO before hand is just a last wild thing before you seal the deal 4EVER(sandlot voice). To people really not cheat at bachelor parties? ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/66 "2008-07-31T08:16:30Z")
> [@cougarspeed](#): > > Hmmm I think they are both shitty but IMO before hand is just a last wild thing before you seal the deal 4EVER(sandlot voice). To people really not cheat at bachelor parties? True, good point. But with doing it 4 months in, you have the excuse of being “bored” and needing excitement right? ---
**Author:** ![woz](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/woz/32/7605_2.png) [@woz](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/woz)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:17am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/67 "2008-07-31T08:17:58Z")
> [@Joe](#): > > Before. If you do it after, getting caught is a lot more expensive. getting caught JUST before would be almost equally as expensive no? ---
**Author:** ![Joe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joe/32/7219_2.png) [@Joe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/68 "2008-07-31T08:19:19Z")
depends on how much you’re worth and if her family paid for the wedding. Half your shit is a big price for some ass. ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/69 "2008-07-31T08:19:24Z")
only if she makes more money than you. ---
**Author:** ![cougarspeed](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cougarspeed/32/7468_2.png) [@cougarspeed](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cougarspeed)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:20am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/70 "2008-07-31T08:20:20Z")
> [@Paulo](#): > > True, good point. But with doing it 4 months in, you have the excuse of being “bored” and needing excitement right? IDK I am a pretty morally bent person but I still see marriage as a big deal not just something to do if that makes sense. 4 months should still be the honeymoon phase if you are having wandering thoughts 4 months in lol how the f would they stick around for LIFE! ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/71 "2008-07-31T08:23:57Z")
> [@Paulo](#): > > True, good point. But with doing it 4 months in, you have the excuse of being “bored” and needing excitement right? If you’re getting bored and need excitement after just 4 months your marriage is doomed. Don’t get me wrong, cheating on the person you asked to spend the rest of your life with you blows, but getting in one last fling before the ring is way better throwing in the towel when you’re just getting started. ---
**Author:** ![justa4door](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/justa4door/32/7259_2.png) [@justa4door](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/justa4door)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:24am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/72 "2008-07-31T08:24:36Z")
> [@Eazy716](#): > > can you have your wife speak to my fiance’? I’d be very grateful! lol pm her your #… thing is i dont think they make JDM “lil people” ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/73 "2008-07-31T08:25:08Z")
> [@Nikuk](#): > > fixed LOL my dogs would freak out more than I would. “WHO THE FUCK WAS HERE?!” as they sniff the shit out of the bag. Not you. ---
**Author:** ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:28am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/74 "2008-07-31T08:28:31Z")
> [@justa4door](#): > > lol pm her your #… thing is i dont think they make JDM “lil people” never been to Importfest? they certainly do, lol ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:28am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/75 "2008-07-31T08:28:45Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > If you’re getting bored and need excitement after just 4 months your marriage is doomed. > > Don’t get me wrong, cheating on the person you asked to spend the rest of your life with you blows, but getting in one last fling before the ring is way better throwing in the towel when you’re just getting started. Yeah 4 months is still a substantial time with one person for me. So that’s probably affecting my opinion. I’ll change my vote… ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:30am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/76 "2008-07-31T08:30:41Z")
lol Find the right person and 4 months is the blink of an eye. ---
**Author:** ![ly555is](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3bc359/32.png) [@ly555is](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ly555is)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/77 "2008-07-31T08:31:37Z")
> [@OfficerK](#): > > No option for “Did at one time, but not again” type of thing same time to grow up at some point ---
**Author:** ![fbrendan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d26b3c/32.png) [@fbrendan](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fbrendan)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/78 "2008-07-31T08:31:41Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > lol > > Find the right person and 4 months is the blink of an eye. lol srsly. my last relationship was 2.5-3 years. 😢 ---
**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/79 "2008-07-31T08:32:07Z")
:lol: ---
**Author:** ![fbrendan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d26b3c/32.png) [@fbrendan](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fbrendan)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/80 "2008-07-31T08:33:01Z")
> [@LZ](#): > > :lol: if you are laughing at what i think you are… we were already broken up and i was on the rebound. technically… 😉 man, i loved that suite. EDIT \_ god, you were a pussy that night. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440.md?page=3) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440.md?page=5)