# RELATIONSHIPS: Are you faithful? **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [July 31, 2008, 6:40am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440 "2008-07-31T06:40:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/81 "2008-07-31T08:33:33Z")
> [@fbrendan](#): > > if you are laughin at what i think you are… > > we were already broken up and i was on the rebound. technically… 😉 > > man i loved that suite. :lol: :lol: Honestly…I completely forgot about that…thanks for the reminder :tup: and the terrible mental images… ---
**Author:** ![fbrendan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d26b3c/32.png) [@fbrendan](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fbrendan)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/82 "2008-07-31T08:36:39Z")
> [@LZ](#): > > :tup: and the terrible mental images… :roflpicard: ---
**Author:** ![Mike93](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mike93/32/7325_2.png) [@Mike93](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mike93)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/83 "2008-07-31T08:38:32Z")
Interesting question. Any of the married guys I know ALWAYS say it’s okay to play the field before you’re married, no matter how serious you think your current relationship is. Once a ring enters the picture, those wants should be gone, as well as any cheating obviously. For the record, my record is clean…I’ve been a good boy. ---
**Author:** ![ILCisDEAD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a87d85/32.png) [@ILCisDEAD](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ILCisDEAD)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:40am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/84 "2008-07-31T08:40:50Z")
Im only faithful when they gave me that “official title” up until then its 2 or 3 other girls at the same time ---
**Author:** ![Nikuk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nikuk/32/7254_2.png) [@Nikuk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nikuk)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/85 "2008-07-31T08:41:59Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > lol > > Find the right person and 4 months is the blink of an eye. amazing aint it? ---
**Author:** ![Joe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joe/32/7219_2.png) [@Joe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/86 "2008-07-31T08:43:11Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > lol > > Find the right person and 4 months is the blink of an eye. > [@Nikuk](#): > > amazing aint it? So which one’s the guy? 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Nikuk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nikuk/32/7254_2.png) [@Nikuk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nikuk)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:44am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/87 "2008-07-31T08:44:38Z")
the one with the looser mitt. ---
**Author:** ![Carnut](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/carnut/32/7590_2.png) [@Carnut](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Carnut)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/88 "2008-07-31T08:48:13Z")
> [@ILCisDEAD](#): > > Im only faithful when they gave me that “official title” up until then its 2 or 3 other girls at the same time werd ---
**Author:** ![Jam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jam/32/7235_2.png) [@Jam](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jam)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/89 "2008-07-31T08:52:45Z")
i flirt with the sub girls at work, but cmon! theyre all so hot and young… its hard not too… and ive never cheated on my gf ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/90 "2008-07-31T08:54:51Z")
> [@Jam](#): > > i flirt with the sub girls at work, but cmon! theyre all so hot and young… its hard not too… > > and ive never cheated on my gf Flirting is defintely NOT cheating. I flirt all the time. ---
**Author:** ![Joe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joe/32/7219_2.png) [@Joe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 8:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/91 "2008-07-31T08:59:29Z")
Those of you who say no/never, is it actual disinterest in any other girl or fear of getting caught? If you were in a foreign country and a girl on your gf’s level or a point or 2 higher wanted it, and didnt know your name or where you were from, would you hit it? ---
**Author:** ![Zong](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/zong/32/7580_2.png) [@Zong](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Zong)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/92 "2008-07-31T09:00:14Z")
(11:59:30 AM) mrpaulo: I never dipped the pen in foreign ink while dating ili ---
**Author:** ![Afrank45](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/afrank45/32/5021_2.png) [@Afrank45](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Afrank45)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:08am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/93 "2008-07-31T09:08:58Z")
> [@Joe](#): > > Those of you who say no/never, is it actual disinterest in any other girl or fear of getting caught? If you were in a foreign country and a girl on your gf’s level or a point or 2 higher wanted it, and didnt know your name or where you were from, would you hit it? fear of getting caught/ fear of ruining something good. ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:09am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/94 "2008-07-31T09:09:48Z")
> [@Afrank45](#): > > fear of getting caught/ **fear of ruining something good**. but if that’s the case, what is a random lay going to do for you? The few times I did cheat, I was disliking the relationship that I was already in. ---
**Author:** ![Afrank45](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/afrank45/32/5021_2.png) [@Afrank45](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Afrank45)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/95 "2008-07-31T09:12:58Z")
> [@Paulo](#): > > but if that’s the case, what is a random lay going to do for you? The few times I did cheat, I was disliking the relationship that I was already in. but what is a random lay supposed to do for you other than provide you with a quick nut? maybe cure that sense of curiosity you may have when see a chick that you wanna fuck other than that i could not tell you…all the more reason not to cheat:gotme: ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/96 "2008-07-31T09:14:26Z")
True. Curiosity killed the cat my friend. I wish I had a nickle for everytime a middle aged older man told me to fuck as many girls as I possibly could before getting married. ---
**Author:** ![badazzss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e19adc/32.png) [@badazzss](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/badazzss)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/97 "2008-07-31T09:21:20Z")
since it looks like basically all guys answered this… maybe a better poll is - how many of you think that a g/f or wife of yours has cheated on you? how many of you know it? how many of you really think it, but just don’t want to believe it? mua-hahaha! ---
**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/98 "2008-07-31T09:22:26Z")
I think its sort of a snowball effect kind of thing. If I get away scott free once, then I will know that I can do it and not get caught, and the probably do it often until it is constantly going on. Besides, sure I think other girls are hot, but it is not nearly worth ruining a good thing. ---
**Author:** ![Geoff](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/geoff/32/6104_2.png) [@Geoff](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Geoff)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/99 "2008-07-31T09:23:21Z")
This poll is full of either liars, or ugly dudes. ---
**Author:** ![walter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/walter/32/7202_2.png) [@walter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/walter)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:24am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/100 "2008-07-31T09:24:26Z")
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