# Restraining order?

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/restraining-order/194195>\
**Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [December 13, 2007, 3:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/restraining-order/194195 "2007-12-13T15:09:57Z")\
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**Author:** ![beat90tsi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/43a26b/32.png) [@beat90tsi](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/beat90tsi)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2007, 6:10am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/restraining-order/194195/19 "2007-12-14T06:10:47Z")

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> [@Hello, this is Ron from Subaru International calling...](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hello-this-is-ron-from-subaru-international-calling/33899/25):
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> Also, he can text, email, call all he wants…no disrespect but it only becomes a problem when the gf answers it…just tell her to ignore it. If she pursues then it looks like she still cares.

ding ding ding!!!

We have a winner. Anybody will stop calling/caring eventually. She needs to stop giving him hope. Being “nice” doesn’t work, just ask all the people who stay in a relationship because they don’t want to be mean, then it’s that much worse when they do break it off, or they end up in a loveless marriage.

Don’t be nice, don’t call him, just cut all ties…immediately.

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