# Should I?? **URL:** \ **Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [April 22, 2007, 6:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/should-i/189450 "2007-04-22T18:17:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 9
**Author:** ![TwoFortySX](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/twofortysx/32/6014_2.png) [@TwoFortySX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TwoFortySX)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2007, 7:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/should-i/189450/9 "2007-04-22T19:26:13Z")
> [@FS: Many Sticky 225/45/17 Tires](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-many-sticky-225-45-17-tires/29581/9): > > well…I know how the site can be…but the past is the past. > > Either way I can understand where you are coming from. > > My last piece of advice: Stop thinking so much about it and just take a chance with things…go out, come to an event, go play rugby. Whatever just do it.! 🙂 I appreciate your advice 🙂 I’m still a very similar person to what I was back then ,when I did attend meets, Im just a slight bit more mature and a little less cocky. So I don’t know how my reception at events is going to be. Some members probably judged me before getting to know me but I know that stigma is still going to undoubtedly effect their opinion. I have no one to go out with as of right now. When you hang out with your EX there is always a slight tension because of the past which kind of ruins the club, bar, going out to meet people scene. I dont know. I wouldnt say that im whiny, depressed or thinking about the situation too much yet. I just finished my semester and I have 4 months with little to do ahead of me. I think that is what has this on my mind as much as it has been lately. Im not sure what the hell im going to do for the next 4 months. you can only wash and wax your car so many times. lol 🙂 --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/should-i/189450)._