# So on the ...
**URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic
**Created:** [February 3, 2006, 3:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685 "2006-02-03T03:49:16Z")
**Posts on this page:** 15
**Page:** 2
### Author:  [@MonteCarloChick](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MonteCarloChick)
#### Post date: [February 3, 2006, 11:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/21 "2006-02-03T11:22:07Z")
> [@GSTairs](#):
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> I didn’t know you had kids or a c-section before…so you must know better than me or the 30 women that have told me about their experiences;)
Well I’ve heard plenty of stories from women in my family and my mom’s friends also. C-Sections also are harder on the mother than vaginal births. Have you had children?
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### Author:  [@StairSRT4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/StairSRT4)
#### Post date: [February 3, 2006, 11:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/22 "2006-02-03T11:32:22Z")
> [@MonteCarloChick](#):
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> Well I’ve heard plenty of stories from women in my family and my mom’s friends also. C-Sections also are harder on the mother than vaginal births. Have you had children?
no kids for me…I work with infants 6weeks to a year every day, and talk to many women that have had natural and c-section births…they all prefer having c-sections. pushing out a 7-10 pound baby out of your vagina with hours and hours of labor pain…verses a scheduled c-section surgery…with only 2 weeks more of recovery time…i think NYSFF’s wife will be better off with a c-setion so he shouldn’t worry 🙂
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### Author:  [@MonteCarloChick](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MonteCarloChick)
#### Post date: [February 3, 2006, 11:34am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/23 "2006-02-03T11:34:10Z")
> [@GSTairs](#):
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> no kids for me…I work with infants 6weeks to a year every day, and talk to many women that have had natural and c-section births…they all prefer having c-sections. pushing out a 7-10 pound baby out of your vagina with hours and hours of labor pain…verses a scheduled c-section surgery…with only 2 weeks more of recovery time…i think NYSFF’s wife will be better off with a c-setion so he shouldn’t worry 🙂
Well it’s different for all women… so I’ll just leave it that and wish him good luck 🙂 No need in arguing
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### Author:  [@RobHimself](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RobHimself)
#### Post date: [February 3, 2006, 11:34am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/24 "2006-02-03T11:34:46Z")
I can’t believe the ladies are brining the drama today. Natural Birf fo lyfe Yo!!
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### Author:  [@Dr.Stevil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dr.Stevil)
#### Post date: [February 3, 2006, 11:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/25 "2006-02-03T11:39:26Z")
lol
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### Author:  [@Xander](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Xander)
#### Post date: [February 3, 2006, 11:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/26 "2006-02-03T11:39:43Z")
Monte Carlo-I-allways-know-better-chick :tdown:
X…
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### Author:  [@MonteCarloChick](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MonteCarloChick)
#### Post date: [February 3, 2006, 11:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/27 "2006-02-03T11:45:40Z")
> [@RobHimself](#):
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> I can’t believe the ladies are brining the drama today. Natural Birf fo lyfe Yo!!
No drama… and I never said I know everything. I just have completely different experiences.
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### Author:  [@RobHimself](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RobHimself)
#### Post date: [February 3, 2006, 11:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/28 "2006-02-03T11:47:21Z")
I just think its funny the topic that started it was child birth.
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### Author:  [@StairSRT4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/StairSRT4)
#### Post date: [February 3, 2006, 12:34pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/29 "2006-02-03T12:34:39Z")
> [@RobHimself](#):
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> I just think its funny the topic that started it was child birth.
:mamoru:
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### Author:  [@NYSFF](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/NYSFF)
#### Post date: [February 15, 2006, 8:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/30 "2006-02-15T08:48:35Z")
So do any of you guys know what to do to make her happy when she gets home? I wanted to rent a Sign “Its a Boy” and put up some shit in front of the house and such. But with the kid, “Sry, Kids” Bills, And all of that other fun money crunching shit, Its hard for me to do all of that cause money is SUPER tight! So any of ya’s have any ideas to welcome her and the newborn back home?
Kep in mind I have no family and her family are assholes so I dont have help from that department. I have a Very few selected friends that would fit in my hand. So This has to be somethng I can do myself.
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### Author:  [@AlbinoMonkeyRat](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/AlbinoMonkeyRat)
#### Post date: [February 15, 2006, 10:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/31 "2006-02-15T10:04:40Z")
Pretend it’s like Valentine’s Day II, except nobody’s getting laid. lol
Just make sure she’s comfortable, and do all the chores around the house that she did before the baby was born.\*\*
\*\*This applies to the recovery time only. After that, you will find that you’ll be taking turns with chores and taking care of the kid. If she gets used to you doing the chores all the time, then you have lost all control. Control + Compromise FTW
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### Author:  [@drvnkd](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/drvnkd)
#### Post date: [February 15, 2006, 10:44am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/32 "2006-02-15T10:44:53Z")
my daugter was a c-section.
what nobody mentiones is the shakes…
while in the recovery room, she was freezing cold.
shock i guess…
also, c-section babies do not have their heads deformed by the vaginal canal. 🙂
not all women recover in the same way. its abdominal surgery.
so of course our bedroom is on the 2nd floor, and i removed the boxspring on the bed so that she could easily get in and out.
the scar is not really that bad… it’s horizontal a few inches below the belly button.
I have no experience w/natural child birth though 🙂
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### Author:  [@JezikaTee1983](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JezikaTee1983)
#### Post date: [February 15, 2006, 11:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/33 "2006-02-15T11:55:43Z")
my mom had a c-section with my little sister. she recovered fine in a few weeks. she had a lot of trouble getting down the stairs at first because of the pain and her stiches came undone so they had to redo them but other than that she was fine. the c-section was way easier on her than natural birth, which is what she had with me.
good luck with the bambino
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### Author:  [@Bacon](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bacon)
#### Post date: [February 15, 2006, 12:34pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/34 "2006-02-15T12:34:59Z")
Congrats, on the second child. :tup:
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### Author:  [@NYSFF](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/NYSFF)
#### Post date: [February 15, 2006, 2:19pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-on-the/7685/35 "2006-02-15T14:19:56Z")
> [@JezikaTee1983](#):
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> she had a lot of trouble getting down the stairs at first because of the pain
HA! I’ve had 3 Back surgerys and Stairs, LMAO. Fuck that! I know how she’s going to feel trust me. Sucks to is that We normally chill and Sleep on the Third level. And the shitter is on the 2nd level. So I feel her pain man.
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