# So you have a girlfriend... **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [December 22, 2008, 9:32pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174 "2008-12-22T21:32:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 4:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/21 "2008-12-23T04:54:32Z")
off topic, but Chriskozzi is that an American Eskimo dog in your avatar? I’ve always had those dogs lol, didn’t know anyone knew about them lol. on topic: i’d go with dan’s checklist, it’s pretty solid ---
**Author:** ![OfficerK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/4da419/32.png) [@OfficerK](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OfficerK)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 5:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/22 "2008-12-23T05:01:26Z")
Date chicks that are at least 16 so that they can drive themselves? ---
**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 5:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/23 "2008-12-23T05:16:12Z")
sounds like she only does shit that is convenient for her. Fuck that. ---
**Author:** ![Carnut](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/carnut/32/7590_2.png) [@Carnut](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Carnut)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 5:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/24 "2008-12-23T05:22:57Z")
lame ---
**Author:** ![bing](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bing/32/7211_2.png) [@bing](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/bing)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 5:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/25 "2008-12-23T05:39:02Z")
some of you guys have such fggt problems. there should have been shit on day 2 that revealed the future of this relationship, you should have bailed then. try harder ---
**Author:** ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 5:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/26 "2008-12-23T05:47:21Z")
![http://wrongblog.org/wp-content/uploads/skating-wrong.jpg](http://wrongblog.org/wp-content/uploads/skating-wrong.jpg) ---
**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 6:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/27 "2008-12-23T06:00:51Z")
Honestly, when I saw the title of this thread, I thought of the ending of this: ![http://photos-g.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v1697/59/33/692180446/n692180446_5097494_2709.jpg](http://photos-g.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v1697/59/33/692180446/n692180446_5097494_2709.jpg) ---
**Author:** ![Chuck](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/chuck/32/7377_2.png) [@Chuck](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Chuck)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 6:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/28 "2008-12-23T06:36:16Z")
I agree not worth it , I am in the same situation and I am married. But you dont want them to independent from you becouse they stray and leave you wondering who is doing what else for her. You need to find that happy medium and keep it there or retrain this one without being so much a dick! . Use the word phrases that begin with “I” to make it very clear on your intentions and expectations with problems with that. ---
**Author:** ![\_Karu](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/_karu/32/7602_2.png) [@\_Karu](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/_Karu)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 6:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/29 "2008-12-23T06:37:42Z")
> [@Beck"](#): > > …You pay for everything… :fry: Dunno about you guys, but, I prefer everything 50:50. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Tevenor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8baadc/32.png) [@Tevenor](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Tevenor)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 6:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/30 "2008-12-23T06:41:19Z")
Whomever you are taking about isn’t dating, they are host of a sexual parasite. Time to either accept, admire, and enjoy the symbiotic suckage that it is or burn it off. ---
**Author:** ![Jim1234664](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jim1234664/32/7438_2.png) [@Jim1234664](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jim1234664)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 6:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/31 "2008-12-23T06:47:36Z")
> [@Just Karter](#): > > my bitch dosent ask for anything, except the occasional coffee and a **muffin** from hortons. once every 6 minutes is not occasional ---
**Author:** ![Wahoo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/wahoo/32/8265_2.png) [@Wahoo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Wahoo)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 6:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/32 "2008-12-23T06:50:35Z")
Does she do ATM? ---
**Author:** ![Devioustsi](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/devioustsi/32/7406_2.png) [@Devioustsi](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Devioustsi)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 7:20am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/33 "2008-12-23T07:20:28Z")
newds? ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 7:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/34 "2008-12-23T07:21:39Z")
> [@bing](#): > > some of you guys have such fggt problems. > > there should have been shit on day 2 that revealed the future of this relationship, you should have bailed then. > > try harder Fucking word. The biggest telltale sign for me when starting to see a new girl, is how she is with her family. If she is snappy with her parents and siblings, has a bad attitude towards them and fights with them a lot, BAD SIGN. This is just a preview of how the bitch will treat you down the road. It applies for things other than just attitude as well. An ex I had a few years ago would get along great with her mom and dad, but told them lies all the time. And what do ya know… It ended our relationship in a horrible way later on. ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 7:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/35 "2008-12-23T07:33:35Z")
> [@Paulo](#): > > The biggest telltale sign for me when starting to see a new girl, is how she is with her family. If she is snappy with her parents and siblings, has a bad attitude towards them and fights with them a lot, BAD SIGN. This is just a preview of how the bitch will treat you down the road. prolific. ---
**Author:** ![layzie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/layzie/32/7599_2.png) [@layzie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/layzie)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 7:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/36 "2008-12-23T07:48:47Z")
stop dating 12 year olds and you wont have to drive them around and pick their friends up. just have her mom drop her off at the mall and meet her there ---
**Author:** ![Pauly](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pauly/32/7493_2.png) [@Pauly](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pauly)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 7:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/37 "2008-12-23T07:50:42Z")
Bue Buye. He needs a better quality of G/F’s ---
**Author:** ![Tevenor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8baadc/32.png) [@Tevenor](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Tevenor)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 7:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/38 "2008-12-23T07:53:51Z")
Maybe he should just start dating dudes. ---
**Author:** ![Tunerfreak](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tunerfreak/32/7427_2.png) [@Tunerfreak](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Tunerfreak)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 7:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/39 "2008-12-23T07:58:24Z")
> [@Beck"](#): > > and you constantly do everything for her. > > Drive her places, pick her friends up, drop them off, go to the places she wants to (even though you hate them), go to the places to eat she wants to. Visit her on her break. You pay for everything. You pretty much do what she wants to do, even though sometimes you don’t want to. > > Well, after not feeling well and having to cancel dinner plans tonight, and move them to tomorrow… she finds out that after dinner tomorrow you were planning on going to the airport to welcome your friend home from Iraq. Turns out she knows a couple people who will be there and it will feel “awkward” and she doesn’t want to just stand there while everyone is excited to see him and she doesn’t even know him. > > I think after re-reading what I’ve typed…it’s clear. She’s worthless and you’re probably better off, getting out now while you can. > > amirite? this just brought back bad memories from my one ex…u know which one ---
**Author:** ![Smaefer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e79b87/32.png) [@Smaefer](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Smaefer)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 8:10am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174/40 "2008-12-23T08:10:26Z")
> [@layzie](#): > > stop dating 12 year olds and you wont have to drive them around and pick their friends up. > > just have her mom drop her off at the mall and meet her there So why did you have to leave that bar the other night and go pick your girl up at the hotel? You should of just had your GF mom drop her off at Pappas’//:eekdance: [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so-you-have-a-girlfriend/60174.md?page=3)