# So... **URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so/248393 **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic **Created:** [November 15, 2009, 8:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so/248393 "2009-11-15T20:16:45Z") **Posts on this page:** 1 **Showing post:** 121
### Author: ![Hooked\_on\_240](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Hooked\_on\_240](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Hooked_on_240) #### Post date: [July 25, 2010, 6:42pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so/248393/121 "2010-07-25T18:42:58Z")
> [@FS: 2 Air conditioners Goldstar WM5000](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-2-air-conditioners-goldstar-wm5000/31909/58): > > Congrats. I don’t recall you getting engaged? Maybe I missed the thread? > > A lot of places to go but the EURO is cheaper now so it makes more sense to go there. We also have family there. But, yea, Italia is gorgeous and should make for a fantastic vacation. > > We are lucky to not use credit at all. It sucks that the wedding venue doesn’t except credit (have to pay tax too) so I needed to have plenty of cash on at all times. > > Save The Date is more important for us because it’s an out of town wedding for our family as they don’t live here. > > DJ was very important to us. We have a NYC club DJ and I made sure he can mix and he is very sound. Very psyched on that. > > Florist… Well, it’s probably more for the females but I really got involved. You can get robbed there so be careful. by CC i meant bank card :lol. i have never, and will never get a Credit card. i pay for everything in cash. if you dont have the money, you shouldnt be spending it. For the DJ she wants this guy that did her two friends weddings and her moms a couple years ago. i was just gunna save money and hire one of my friends that has been DJ’ing professionally since HS in clubs in the albany area. but w.e… im not fighting about it. if she wants to spend 600 for 4 hours so be it. Lol. Florist is actually a family friend. i forgot her shop, but its on troy-schenectady rd, kinda across from juilet house of brides. saving TONS there. > [@FS: 2003 Mitsubishi Eclipse Rear Mudflaps](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-2003-mitsubishi-eclipse-rear-mudflaps/33469/2): > > this is exactly how we feel. > > **also, we arent doing any speeches or any of the worst. Its a straight 20 minute, will you marry me stuff, kiss the bride, done and over with. Just said vows.** > > > > **ok now lets go to the 5 hour open bar, cocktail hour, dance floor with the dj, dinner etc…then after hours we are having bomb fires on the beach and then whoever is staying has the choice of staying in a cabin or a lodge right on the property** we arnt doing speeches either. F that lol 5 hour open bar. in a way is a stupid idea. not that it has its benefits like drunken mishaps… but i didnt want friends and family sloshed. :lol i sure will be :angelsmiley. they offered us open bar for the night and it saves us over 1500 cant rememebr the exact number. Our orig budget was ~10k. were in the 15k range now :lol trying to have a small wedding ~100 or so people, and save the money for the honeymoon/buying new cars for the both of us. --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/so/248393)._