# Started off a good night but...

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859>\
**Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [September 3, 2004, 8:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859 "2004-09-03T08:00:55Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Axe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce73a5/32.png) [@Axe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Axe)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/1 "2004-09-03T08:00:55Z")

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I had a good night in the beginning of last night. A few of my friends were just hanging out and enjoying the night. The other night I had someone call me at 2:00 a.m. and I didn’t know the number. So last night around 11:00 I called it back. It ends up it was my best friends sister. They lived right next to me when I lived at my dads. She is getting a divorce with her husband because she is still wanting to be a “party girl” even though she has a 3 year old son. So anyways, she is back with her ex-boyfriend that used to abuse her both physically and emotionally. When I called he kept asking her questions about me. She told him basically that I am like a little brother to her. He told her to get off the phone and she screamed “F U” to him. Next thing I know I heard her scream like someone hit her and the phone hung up. I call back 2 seconds later…no answer waited a minute…no answer. I waited bout 2 minutes, she finally pics up and is crying. He ended up hitting her and throwing her around. I was told her to call the cops and tell them but she said no. I was gonna call the cops but I had no idea where the guy lives. I was also supposed to go to PA today till tomorrow afternoon but if I go up, I will probably find where he lives and beat his fuggin ass. I said something to her 2 brothers, basically my two BEST friends. They are all on there way back from OBX from vacation. Her husband is with her family on the vacation and she didn’t wanna go because he went. Ryan, her husband also knows what happened.

So, should I:  
A: Go up and beat this dudes ass with the help of her brothers and husband  
B: Go up and just stay away from it.  
C: Just wait till tomorrow and go for my families picnic and come right back down after the picnic is over  
D: Stay away from PA all together

Just remember that this girl I have known since 2nd grade and is really like a sister to me. Her whole family is like family to my family. Both of our families have done so much together including buy beach houses right next to each other in OBX and we go on vacations together. I need help with this one!

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**Author:** ![Darkstar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@Darkstar](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Darkstar)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:07am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/2 "2004-09-03T08:07:10Z")

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i have no respect for wife beaters. Tough choice.

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**Author:** ![Axe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce73a5/32.png) [@Axe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Axe)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:10am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/3 "2004-09-03T08:10:35Z")

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> [@Darkstar](#):
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> i have no respect for wife beaters. Tough choice.

Well, not wife beater…he is the boyfriend of my friend who is getting a divorce. I have no respect for men at all that hit their women.

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**Author:** ![imported\_SINISTER](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/imported_sinister/32/5970_2.png) [@imported\_SINISTER](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/imported_SINISTER)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/4 "2004-09-03T08:11:35Z")

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let the two brothers deal with it

i know its hard but you done good allready but letting them know

let blood handle blood on that one

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**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/5 "2004-09-03T08:16:07Z")

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fuck him up

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**Author:** ![fshowcars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fshowcars/32/5937_2.png) [@fshowcars](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fshowcars)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/6 "2004-09-03T08:16:43Z")

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tough one… i agree with both dark and 2fn… guys that hit girls deserve to be beaten to nothing by anyone and everyone…

but also, the brother can take care of it, being that they are blood and it makes more sense in the eyes of the law when dude get whooped and shit goes down…

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**Author:** ![Axe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce73a5/32.png) [@Axe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Axe)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:20am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/7 "2004-09-03T08:20:58Z")

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> [@fshowcars](#):
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> tough one… i agree with both dark and 2fn… guys that hit girls deserve to be beaten to nothing by anyone and everyone…
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> but also, the brother can take care of it, being that they are blood and it makes more sense in the eyes of the law when dude get whooped and shit goes down…

I understand. But…basically we are like blood. I think she spent more time at my parents house then I did. Since we lived right next to each other basically our entire lives, we just grew as one big family. It is a hard choice…damnit this sucks.

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**Author:** ![imported\_SINISTER](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/imported_sinister/32/5970_2.png) [@imported\_SINISTER](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/imported_SINISTER)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/8 "2004-09-03T08:21:55Z")

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> [@Axe](#):
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> I understand. But…basically we are like blood. I think she spent more time at my parents house then I did. Since we lived right next to each other basically our entire lives, we just grew as one big family. It is a hard choice…damnit this sucks.

where does she live???

in PA???

do you know the gusy name i may be able to get an address and then you could call the cops

pm it to me

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**Author:** ![Axe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce73a5/32.png) [@Axe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Axe)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:24am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/9 "2004-09-03T08:24:29Z")

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> [@2FNFast](#):
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> where does she live???
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> in PA???
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> do you know the gusy name i may be able to get an address and then you could call the cops
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> pm it to me

I don’t know his last name. All I know is his first name. I know the general area of where he lives but he rents his house so the house and bills are in another name. All I know is he lives in Downingtown PA

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**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:30am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/10 "2004-09-03T08:30:04Z")

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snap his kneecaps

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**Author:** ![OnTheRun710](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/5fc32e/32.png) [@OnTheRun710](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OnTheRun710)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/11 "2004-09-03T08:31:27Z")

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beat his fucking ass, you don’t hit girls

i dont care what they do

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**Author:** ![fshowcars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fshowcars/32/5937_2.png) [@fshowcars](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fshowcars)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/12 "2004-09-03T08:38:13Z")

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> [@Axe](#):
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> I understand. But…basically we are like blood. I think she spent more time at my parents house then I did. Since we lived right next to each other basically our entire lives, we just grew as one big family. It is a hard choice…damnit this sucks.

break his jaw… after rethinking about it… i’d probably go after him… he’s a slime ball… just attack his ass and dont let him realize it’s you… then you= teh win

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**Author:** ![OnTheRun710](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/5fc32e/32.png) [@OnTheRun710](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OnTheRun710)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/13 "2004-09-03T08:41:34Z")

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yea, he has a point, don’t forget ur ninja suit

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**Author:** ![RedMeanieGSR](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e95f7d/32.png) [@RedMeanieGSR](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RedMeanieGSR)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 8:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/14 "2004-09-03T08:56:41Z")

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let this be the last thing he sees

![http://lemontoast.com/journal/ninjaday/ninja.jpg](http://lemontoast.com/journal/ninjaday/ninja.jpg)

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**Author:** ![Axe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce73a5/32.png) [@Axe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Axe)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 9:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/15 "2004-09-03T09:02:31Z")

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Well, a guy from another forum gave me I think the best thing to do…

“Go up and get in his face. Tell him that this is his only warning. next time he as much lays a hand on her he might as well leave the country because not only will her ex, 2 brothers becoming up but you will be too. Then shove him in his chest to make sure he understands you aren’t fucking around. Also, say names like women beater and shit and see if he swings on you. If he does fuck his day up but if he doesn’t it shows he is scared and will probably not touch her again.”

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**Author:** ![OnTheRun710](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/5fc32e/32.png) [@OnTheRun710](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OnTheRun710)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 9:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/16 "2004-09-03T09:03:38Z")

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sounds like a plan

we need a ninja smiley

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**Author:** ![RedMeanieGSR](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e95f7d/32.png) [@RedMeanieGSR](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RedMeanieGSR)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 9:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/17 "2004-09-03T09:58:18Z")

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![http://racepa.com/forums/html/emoticons/ph34r.gif](http://racepa.com/forums/html/emoticons/ph34r.gif)

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**Author:** ![fshowcars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fshowcars/32/5937_2.png) [@fshowcars](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fshowcars)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 10:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/18 "2004-09-03T10:01:22Z")

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> [@Axe](#):
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> Well, a guy from another forum gave me I think the best thing to do…
> 
> “Go up and get in his face. Tell him that this is his only warning. next time he as much lays a hand on her he might as well leave the country because not only will her ex, 2 brothers becoming up but you will be too. Then shove him in his chest to make sure he understands you aren’t fucking around. Also, say names like women beater and shit and see if he swings on you. If he does fuck his day up but if he doesn’t it shows he is scared and will probably not touch her again.”

that is good advice… sounds legit… if he hits woman, he has to be afraid to hit a guy

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**Author:** ![SSsuperchargedE](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sssuperchargede/32/5958_2.png) [@SSsuperchargedE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SSsuperchargedE)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 10:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/19 "2004-09-03T10:03:29Z")

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> [@8.1crew](#):
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> fuck him up

x11 kick him in the face for me…

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**Author:** ![Axe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce73a5/32.png) [@Axe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Axe)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2004, 11:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/started-off-a-good-night-but/168859/20 "2004-09-03T11:39:57Z")

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> [@SSsuperchargedE](#):
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> x11 kick him in the face for me…

Sure, I will make sure his face looks like Jack Lamberts did at the end of his career…lol. J/K!!! No I think the advise I posted from the guy Harris I know will be what I do.

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