# The worst day of my life is today... **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [October 28, 2005, 9:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939 "2005-10-28T09:50:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 6
**Author:** ![Clean\_Baldy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/clean_baldy/32/7308_2.png) [@Clean\_Baldy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Clean_Baldy)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2005, 3:18pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/101 "2005-10-31T15:18:27Z")
> [@Nessuno3400](#): > > possibly the worst part of it…it takes quite a bit for my family’s approval, so I feel your pain… A couple of days later, I have realized this isn’t that bad. They were there to support me, and feel my pain. They’re now sitting back, just being happy to see me doing better, no matter what decisions I’m making. It’s not so embarrassing, being able to say “We werent right for each other” ---
**Author:** ![Vrooom](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vrooom/32/7198_2.png) [@Vrooom](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vrooom)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2005, 4:39pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/102 "2005-10-31T16:39:11Z")
Wow everyone’s been through this. I feel better now. Phew. I went through that. But I was the 19year old dumper and he was the 20something moved-back-home-with-mommy Dumpee…after 4 years. It was really hard though. I still don’t feel like the same person and it’s been 3 years since we broke up. I STILL think about him, always. But you do come to a point where you know you’ll always think about that person and look back at whatever it was…but you start to look at it differently. And it’s better. And that’s the only way I can really explain it. Me and the ex kept in touch here and there throughout the years, as friends. It was nice. Weird. But nice to know while you’re out there doin your thing, someone is out there still thinking about you. But then I think even that comes to an end…or should. He came down to Pittsburgh, after not seeing him for 3 years, telling me he was going to sweep me off my feet and start where we left off. We made so many plans. Sounds far fetched but I fell for it anyways. It sounded great…even for the past 6 months when I haven’t heard a word from him since. So, I just started getting over him. Again. It sucks. You never get over it. You just start to look at it differently. And it’s better. ---
**Author:** ![Daddie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/daddie/32/7621_2.png) [@Daddie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Daddie)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2005, 7:03pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/103 "2005-10-31T19:03:27Z")
> [@Vrooom](#): > > Wow everyone’s been through this. > I feel better now. > Phew. > > I went through that. But I was the 19year old dumper and he was the 20something moved-back-home-with-mommy Dumpee…after 4 years. It was really hard though. I still don’t feel like the same person and it’s been 3 years since we broke up. I STILL think about him, always. But you do come to a point where you know you’ll always think about that person and look back at whatever it was…but you start to look at it differently. And it’s better. And that’s the only way I can really explain it. > > Me and the ex kept in touch here and there throughout the years, as friends. It was nice. Weird. But nice to know while you’re out there doin your thing, someone is out there still thinking about you. But then I think even that comes to an end…or should. > He came down to Pittsburgh, after not seeing him for 3 years, telling me he was going to sweep me off my feet and start where we left off. We made so many plans. Sounds far fetched but I fell for it anyways. It sounded great…even for the past 6 months when I haven’t heard a word from him since. > So, I just started getting over him. Again. > It sucks. > You never get over it. > You just start to look at it differently. > And it’s better. I’m sorry babe, i didn’t mean to get your hopes up. ---
**Author:** ![Vrooom](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vrooom/32/7198_2.png) [@Vrooom](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vrooom)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2005, 7:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/104 "2005-10-31T19:12:23Z")
You broke my heart Howar’. ---
**Author:** ![Vrooom](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vrooom/32/7198_2.png) [@Vrooom](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vrooom)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2005, 9:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/105 "2005-10-31T21:35:12Z")
Hey… whuddya know…I call the man to “watch” the Steelers game together [probably my first mistake right there huh?] since it’s our first one we haven’t watched together…and what does he tell me??? He’s not happy…and maybe[dun dun dunnnn] it’s not me, it’s him. We left off with the longest awkward silence ever…then a pathetic “well I guess we’ll talk tomarrow.” **WTF** is going on!!! Can we all just be pussies and meet up somewhere and hug and cry because this is fuckingrediculous. \*\*\*I’m so distraught i had to edit 8 spelling errors. ---
**Author:** ![Vrooom](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vrooom/32/7198_2.png) [@Vrooom](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vrooom)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 1:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/106 "2005-11-01T01:29:00Z")
I can’t sleep:meh: 4:28am ---
**Author:** ![funkylemons](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3ec8ea/32.png) [@funkylemons](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/funkylemons)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 1:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/107 "2005-11-01T01:39:44Z")
xfiles marathon on tnt. :tup: ---
**Author:** ![Fetter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c2a13f/32.png) [@Fetter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fetter)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 1:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/108 "2005-11-01T01:47:04Z")
At least you get to try and sleep… I’m at work. an extra 5 hours more than was scheduled to… lol. ---
**Author:** ![Nessuno3400](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nessuno3400/32/7228_2.png) [@Nessuno3400](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nessuno3400)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 7:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/109 "2005-11-01T07:32:33Z")
> [@Vrooom](#): > > Can we all just be pussies and meet up somewhere and hug and cry because this is fuckingrediculous. Yes. Somewhere with a large quantity of alcohol. And women. Anyone up for Canadia this weekend? PM me. ---
**Author:** ![Bucker](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bucker/32/7379_2.png) [@Bucker](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bucker)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 8:06am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/110 "2005-11-01T08:06:52Z")
fuck yeah. ---
**Author:** ![MonteCarloChick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ee59a6/32.png) [@MonteCarloChick](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MonteCarloChick)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 8:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/111 "2005-11-01T08:11:46Z")
Damn, I guess I’m the only one who hasn’t had their heart broken ---
**Author:** ![Nytmair](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nytmair/32/7604_2.png) [@Nytmair](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nytmair)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 9:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/112 "2005-11-01T09:31:00Z")
> [@Vrooom](#): > > I can’t sleep:meh: 4:28am yeah. not being able to sleep sucks. i’ve been sleeping like crap the past week or two. a few times i was up until 7am. friggin crap i tell ya! ---
**Author:** ![Clean\_Baldy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/clean_baldy/32/7308_2.png) [@Clean\_Baldy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Clean_Baldy)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 9:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/113 "2005-11-01T09:46:37Z")
I’ll be a pussy and give you a hug, if it will make you feel better. Plus, nobody has hugged me since all of this has happened… so, I could use one too. Since I am going through this, I KNOW what you’re going through. I still havent found the right path to go down to get on with my life yet. It’s really quite scary. If you’d rather have a one on one convo with someone, just AIM me at Clean Baldy. Trust me, I have lots of time now… plenty of time for others, too. I am realize how much I stopped being there for others, when I went into my relationship. I miss that. > [@Vrooom](#): > > Hey… whuddya know…I call the man to “watch” the Steelers game together > [probably my first mistake right there huh?] since it’s our first one we haven’t watched together…and what does he tell me??? He’s not happy…and maybe[dun dun dunnnn] it’s not me, it’s him. > > We left off with the longest awkward silence ever…then a pathetic “well I guess we’ll talk tomarrow.” > > **WTF** is going on!!! > > Can we all just be pussies and meet up somewhere and hug and cry because this is fuckingrediculous. > > \*\*\*I’m so distraught i had to edit 8 spelling errors. ---
**Author:** ![MaximaSE98](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/maximase98/32/7600_2.png) [@MaximaSE98](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MaximaSE98)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 9:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/114 "2005-11-01T09:53:12Z")
in the words of Joe Dirt…You Just Gotta Keep on Keepin On ---
**Author:** ![Nessuno3400](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nessuno3400/32/7228_2.png) [@Nessuno3400](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nessuno3400)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2005, 7:52pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939/115 "2005-11-01T19:52:57Z")
> [@MonteCarloChick](#): > > Damn, I guess I’m the only one who hasn’t had their heart broken That’s exactly what I said when I first read this thread. I am now eating those words. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-worst-day-of-my-life-is-today/3939.md?page=5)