# This is bull SHIT! **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [January 29, 2009, 8:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/this-is-bull-shit/241690 "2009-01-29T20:12:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 56
**Author:** ![duesmandella](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/439d5e/32.png) [@duesmandella](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/duesmandella)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 4:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/this-is-bull-shit/241690/56 "2009-01-30T04:16:02Z")
> [@cheeetoooooos ebay style](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheeetoooooos-ebay-style/13311/2): > > Ha, thanks man. I’ll be downtown next weekend w/Singh and some other friends if you want to come. It’s actually my Bday weekend out so a couple free drinks would be great! > > The best advice that I can give you on getting laid is just go out, have fun with your friends and don’t be one of those guys that goes out with the #1 mission to get laid. If the nights fun always revolves around chicks, then the night will feel like more of a war mission then a fun night out with friends. If you appear confident, cheerful and fun, that’s a great start for a first impression on a chick. I tend just to make contacts when I go out and follow up with them later. One thing that irks me is when friends see me talking to a chick one on one, and see that as there invite to talk to them also. If i’m with a group of girls, for sure, come over, but if i’m talking one on one, give me my five minutes and find your own chick. I give all of my friends that same respect and I wish some certain friends would give it to me… > > As far as finding a relationship…you just gotta be yourself and find a chick that likes the real you. If you are trying to be something that you arent, then it’ll never work out in the end. Perfect advice right there, i was just going to say like the same thing. I met you Chris, your a good looking kid so my guess is you either try to hard or your too freindly and get sucked right into being the “freind”(plus i bought your old ipod and there was alot of whiny i miss my gf stuff on their lol). Dont try hard, dont act like you care, and be a bit mysterious, girls love to hunt like guys do, even if they have boyfreinds they always want more, when you suck them in that way and have their attention, you win. Always be confident and have something to say so it doesnt look like your trying hard, thats why you just dont have to care, when you care you put pressure on yourself and screw up lol --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/this-is-bull-shit/241690)._