# This is bull SHIT! **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [January 29, 2009, 8:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/this-is-bull-shit/241690 "2009-01-29T20:12:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 60
**Author:** ![Singh1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ba8739/32.png) [@Singh1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Singh1)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 4:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/this-is-bull-shit/241690/60 "2009-01-30T04:57:47Z")
> [@cheeetoooooos ebay style](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheeetoooooos-ebay-style/13311/2): > > Ha, thanks man. I’ll be downtown next weekend w/Singh and some other friends if you want to come. It’s actually my Bday weekend out so a couple free drinks would be great! > > The best advice that I can give you on getting laid is just go out, have fun with your friends and don’t be one of those guys that goes out with the #1 mission to get laid. If the nights fun always revolves around chicks, then the night will feel like more of a war mission then a fun night out with friends. If you appear confident, cheerful and fun, that’s a great start for a first impression on a chick. I tend just to make contacts when I go out and follow up with them later. One thing that irks me is when friends see me talking to a chick one on one, and see that as there invite to talk to them also. If i’m with a group of girls, for sure, come over, but if i’m talking one on one, give me my five minutes and find your own chick. I give all of my friends that same respect and I wish some certain friends would give it to me… > > As far as finding a relationship…you just gotta be yourself and find a chick that likes the real you. If you are trying to be something that you arent, then it’ll never work out in the end. YEA ! we talked about this recently actually, and I totally agree DONT go out just to “get laid” thats extremely lame and will leave more disappointed than happy… Also going out to meet girls is fine as long as you dont have expectations… if your under 25 IMO you should only be looking for one thing, that is sex… if you are looking for a girlfriend/relationship status dealio… thats where your going wrong… relationships just happen on their own and you meet a girl who is pretty chill and as long as you dont start it off on some “marry you” shit then its all good meet as many girls you can and dont be clingy to anyone, because you dont have to worry about finding the right girl , she will find you for sure… you meet a whole bunch of new girls then you will find some of them are cool and you want to hang out with, then a relationship thing can go about, but otherwise just move on , dont try to make shit work IMO ! im asked alot why im singhle and its simple cuz i dont go looking for girl friends, i am always looking/meeting new girls and that never gets old but i dont cling to any of them if im not really feeling them, and girls under 21 are VERY lame, im actually done with them, there is no reason u should be looking at girls under 21, its just a pain in the ass, i love going out and shit and with a minor its SUCH a pain in the dick to do that… so maybe if i meet a chick who is pretty chill and doesnt drive me crazy i’ll change up the lifestyle, but until then im chillin single and its cool with me, there is NO drama (for the most part) just sometimes they can get to me but thats my own fault, nothing i cant deal with i think a common problem is that girls complain about finding the wrong guys and guys complain about finding the wrong girls… and its obvious why **I dont think chris was asking for advice on getting laid, i think he was just trying to find a girlfriend btw…** OH and another thing i want to touch on is this “one night stand shit” how exagerated is this? LOL comon im sure more than a handful of us has been thru one night stands, but how often ? some of you single dudes act like your game is so tight you are regulary experiencing these? telling me you get laid by a different girl through a one night stand on the regular **is like travis telling me hes paying his bills winning poker games !** --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/this-is-bull-shit/241690)._