# . **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [April 16, 2007, 3:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730 "2007-04-16T15:38:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ImportMuscle](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/importmuscle/32/7615_2.png) [@ImportMuscle](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ImportMuscle)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/1 "2007-04-16T15:38:59Z")
fuck it never mind ---
**Author:** ![MikeRi24](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/57b2e6/32.png) [@MikeRi24](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MikeRi24)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/2 "2007-04-16T15:43:36Z")
just ignore him. ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/3 "2007-04-16T15:48:12Z")
i bet jess ain’t much to look at either. wow, i just read that message (ok, only a small part) you sent to him… you’re a psycho, too. ---
**Author:** ![ryanmcell](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ryanmcell/32/7510_2.png) [@ryanmcell](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ryanmcell)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/4 "2007-04-16T15:53:00Z")
^^ ahahahah nice Newman. Mike - um how bout delete his name from ur book. Or just write back and say something like dude leave me alone or better yet, light flaming bags of poo on his step for shits and giggles. ---
**Author:** ![Violator](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/violator/32/7278_2.png) [@Violator](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Violator)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/5 "2007-04-16T15:53:52Z")
kid has a few screws loose. Best thing to do is be very blunt and clear about no contact. After you state your point you can call the cops if he shows up at her house or your house. If he is found ON THE PROPERTY, they will arrest him. A restraining order can only be filed after the person gets arrested and not before (to my knowledge) ---
**Author:** ![Bacon](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bacon/32/7230_2.png) [@Bacon](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bacon)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/6 "2007-04-16T15:53:53Z")
One text, “Go away, you are not welcome in my life anymore.” or something like that in a not so terribly rude manner, no all caps BS. With no further replies. Call cops if he comes over. ---
**Author:** ![ImportMuscle](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/importmuscle/32/7615_2.png) [@ImportMuscle](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ImportMuscle)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:54pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/7 "2007-04-16T15:54:18Z")
[quote=“newman,post:3,topic:27730"”] wow, i just read that message (ok, only a small part) you sent to him… you’re a psycho, too. [/quote] Hey drastic times call for drastic measures 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Schema](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/779978/32.png) [@Schema](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Schema)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/8 "2007-04-16T15:56:13Z")
I got through most of it. My take? It (seems) like you want her as well. I can’t see how you could be so involved unless you were after the same thing Jon was. Maybe it’s me, but if that’s not the case, I don’t see why you’re getting bent over it. I wouldn’t make the effort to be entwined in the situation unless I wanted something out of it. Otherwise, it would be your buddy trying to get his mack on, in which case stop c-blocking. Just playing the advocate… ---
**Author:** ![Minglor](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/minglor/32/7373_2.png) [@Minglor](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Minglor)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/9 "2007-04-16T15:58:28Z")
fuckin nutcases… ---
**Author:** ![ImportMuscle](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/importmuscle/32/7615_2.png) [@ImportMuscle](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ImportMuscle)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 3:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/10 "2007-04-16T15:59:47Z")
nope, honestly, i dont like her like that, were totally just freinds she just came to me with this problem cuz she didnt know what to do ---
**Author:** ![BOBBYGRV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@BOBBYGRV](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BOBBYGRV)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/11 "2007-04-16T16:00:10Z")
[quote=“Schema,post:8,topic:27730"”] I got through most of it. My take? It (seems) like you want her as well. I can’t see how you could be so involved unless you were after the same thing Jon was. Maybe it’s me, but if that’s not the case, I don’t see why you’re getting bent over it. I wouldn’t make the effort to be entwined in the situation unless I wanted something out of it. Otherwise, it would be your buddy trying to get his mack on, in which case stop c-blocking. Just playing the advocate… [/quote] gotta fully agree here. the first thing i thought when i got through it was somebody seems a bit jealous. let him do his thing man…its not your job nor do i believe u have a say as into what he does.if one of my friends got involved with one of my relationships or tried to as schema put it cockblock me, i would have their ass. thats just my opinion tho ---
**Author:** ![ryanmcell](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ryanmcell/32/7510_2.png) [@ryanmcell](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ryanmcell)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/12 "2007-04-16T16:00:36Z")
[quote=“Schema,post:8,topic:27730"”] Otherwise, it would be your buddy trying to get his mack on, in which case stop c-blocking. Just playing the advocate… [/quote] :lolham: ---
**Author:** ![sureshot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sureshot/32/7578_2.png) [@sureshot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/sureshot)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:03pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/13 "2007-04-16T16:03:06Z")
i dont feel like reading everything. but did anyone already say: “she’s fucking him and you are getting played, lol” ---
**Author:** ![Violator](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/violator/32/7278_2.png) [@Violator](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Violator)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:05pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/14 "2007-04-16T16:05:54Z")
from my experience the girls are usually just as much at fault. They are dumb attention whores. These guys will give them presents, take them out, do what they want, and shower them with attention… they eat it up until the point where it gets weird. Then they Booo Hooo cry to another sympathetic dude. As soon as things settle down they go right back to hanging out with the stalker. And the cycle repeats. If the chick didnt want him around then why the fuck is he IN her house when you come over. Drop them both off at the therapist and say good fucking luck dumbasses. ---
**Author:** ![ImportMuscle](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/importmuscle/32/7615_2.png) [@ImportMuscle](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ImportMuscle)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/15 "2007-04-16T16:07:41Z")
Interesting proposition^^ Im seriously considering :tup: the drama was fun while it lasted, but its getting old ---
**Author:** ![ryanmcell](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ryanmcell/32/7510_2.png) [@ryanmcell](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ryanmcell)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/16 "2007-04-16T16:09:09Z")
Meh… if you have a thing for her, she’s reeeled you in slowly but surely. ---
**Author:** ![Schema](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/779978/32.png) [@Schema](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Schema)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/17 "2007-04-16T16:09:15Z")
[quote=“Violator,post:14,topic:27730"”] from my experience the girls are usually just as much at fault. If the chick didnt want him around then why the fuck is he IN her house when you come over. [/quote] Check 1 and Check 2. I’d understand if she came to you first, but the two points made above says it all. I’d leave your buddy alone and tell the girl the problem is hers. Or tell her that she can make a point by banging you. C’mon man, think! ---
**Author:** ![ImportMuscle](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/importmuscle/32/7615_2.png) [@ImportMuscle](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ImportMuscle)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:11pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/18 "2007-04-16T16:11:56Z")
[quote=“Schema,post:17,topic:27730"”] Or tell her that she can make a point by banging you. C’mon man, think! [/quote] I just 🤣 ed ---
**Author:** ![Minglor](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/minglor/32/7373_2.png) [@Minglor](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Minglor)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:13pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/19 "2007-04-16T16:13:34Z")
Yeah, shes fucking him and you. Threesome on the way. And not the cool kind ---
**Author:** ![Dr.Stevil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/da6949/32.png) [@Dr.Stevil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dr.Stevil)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 4:13pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730/20 "2007-04-16T16:13:39Z")
just an FYI, every girl I’ve ever know with the name Jess has been a complete psycho… run far far away with that out of the way, if it’s really serious… have her get a restraining order. other than that, I don’t know what to tell ya. maybe he’ll eventually get the hint if she ignores him [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/topic/27730.md?page=2)