# Two Questions. **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [July 21, 2008, 11:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879 "2008-07-21T11:59:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![TrapMuzik82](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/trapmuzik82/32/7488_2.png) [@TrapMuzik82](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TrapMuzik82)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 3:33pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/81 "2008-07-21T15:33:37Z")
hahah I lost the whole jealousy thing but like someone said, if things are done in a “secretive or continuous manner” like texting non-stop when it’s just you two, or maybe going out with so and so and THEN telling you afterwards, I’d get a little ticked. ---
**Author:** ![BuickGN](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/buickgn/32/7200_2.png) [@BuickGN](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BuickGN)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 3:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/82 "2008-07-21T15:35:23Z")
> [@SkunkApe](#): > > my GF has a bunch of guy friends from work… which i’ve met before and are all very cool. She talks to them…txts and hangs out with them… and i have no problem with that. I trust her 100%. One of her guy friends asked us to go out to lunch and what not yesterday. I could not since my dad was in town, but told her to go…which she did. I had no problems with that at all. > > some guys are just complete faggots when it comes to this shit… if you have serious issues don’t trust you’re GF then you dont really deserve to be in a relationship…or…find a new one you can trust for fucks sake. well we know how to hide things. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 3:36pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/83 "2008-07-21T15:36:03Z")
alls i know is girls dont see it as a problem until the guy does it with girls that are his friends then :shithitfan: ---
**Author:** ![Bucker](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bucker/32/7379_2.png) [@Bucker](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bucker)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 3:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/84 "2008-07-21T15:38:28Z")
I am friends with ex’s that I have had plenty of sex with in the past, and there isn’t tension now. Like someone mentioned, kinda like a sister (minus the sex thing). ---
**Author:** ![Geoff](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/geoff/32/6104_2.png) [@Geoff](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Geoff)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 4:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/85 "2008-07-21T16:44:04Z")
get the f off our avatar you biters!!! ---
**Author:** ![Avatar](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/avatar/32/5076_2.png) [@Avatar](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Avatar)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 4:49pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/86 "2008-07-21T16:49:23Z")
I wouldn’t say I get jealous. I just don’t trust broads… ---
**Author:** ![The\_Russian](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/the_russian/32/7414_2.png) [@The\_Russian](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/The_Russian)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 4:52pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/87 "2008-07-21T16:52:33Z")
> [@RuBiCaNT](#): > > That avatar has herpes now… ewww… > [@Fry](#): > > :lol: Yes! I’m spreading like the herp! :hitit::hitit::hitit: ---
**Author:** ![bigwoode](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bigwoode/32/5175_2.png) [@bigwoode](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/bigwoode)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 6:54pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/88 "2008-07-21T18:54:31Z")
weird topic because it affects me directly… i am not a jealous type at all, but my girlfriends best friend is a guy, and he has wanted her for awhile, and still tries to make moves on her, calls her constantly, just doesnt give up, they used to have a little thing… i dont care if theyre friends you know, friends is friends, but it kinda sucks when someone is constantly trying to push more than that ---
**Author:** ![Bassdegrime](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bassdegrime/32/5027_2.png) [@Bassdegrime](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bassdegrime)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 8:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/89 "2008-07-21T20:48:24Z")
Do i have girl friends that i don’t ever want to bang? Yes Do i have girl friends that i do want to bang? Yes Have i banged out girls that i have/still am friends with ? yes will i always act on it? no ---
**Author:** ![Joe\_Omerta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Joe\_Omerta](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe_Omerta)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 8:57pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/90 "2008-07-21T20:57:34Z")
I’m not the jealous type at all. just friends is just friends. as long as you know the person is loyal then you shouldn’t have any problems w/ her going out with other guys alone. But i usually try to at least meet the guy just to get a feel for him. if i think he’s gonna do something then i just tell the girl to be careful and have fun. since i trust her, she’ll tell me everything. and if she said he tried something but nothing happened, then she stops seeing him, or i stalk him out and scare the crap outta him;) also i find myself in the “nice guy” spot all too often, but i don’t try to get with them in that sense. there has to be more substance than just white substance in a sexual incounter for me. (…flame on if you must) ---
**Author:** ![mechanicalmadness](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mechanicalmadness/32/5022_2.png) [@mechanicalmadness](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/mechanicalmadness)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 8:57pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/91 "2008-07-21T20:57:55Z")
> [@ineedacar](#): > > QFT > > unless you’re an uber pussy, or have no confidence in yourself, jealousy shouldn’t be an issue. > > If you’re girlfriend is the type that constantly (like every day, going on several dates etc.) wants to hang out with other guys, and it pisses you off/makes you jealous, she is probably cheating on you. Luckily there are billions more to choose from, so don’t get discouraged. You WILL find someone else that you think is hot that also makes you happy. > > and before anyone has a heart attack, this is strictly my own opinion and my way of doing things that has worked for me for years. > > The one thing that I have realized in the last few years of being single is how many times I probably was getting cheated on when I was younger and didn’t even know. It’s amazing how good girls are at lying and I never really understood it until I started only messing w/ girls that aren’t single. Umm actually. i am currently married. jaleousy will do nothing for a relationship but ruin it. if a chick im with wants to talk to some dude than thats fine as long as there arent any alterior motives lurking about. Granted the dude might have something in mind but as long as the chick is cool about just being friends and nothing more than its all good. BUT as soon as i catch wind of said guy trying something or catch wind of him getting all gushy and lov dovy on her, than its time to regulate. Simple as that. All im saying is that too many people act out of pure emotion with nothing viable to back that emotion up. As far as women being able to hide their fuck buddies. Ya your completely right. Women are incredible at hiding shit. also in their own little minds they dont see it as being wrong.Funny how that works lol. ---
**Author:** ![mechanicalmadness](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mechanicalmadness/32/5022_2.png) [@mechanicalmadness](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/mechanicalmadness)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 8:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/92 "2008-07-21T20:59:45Z")
> [@Cavi Mike](#): > > Trust is key but don’t be a fool. > > Translation: Believe that he/she is telling the truth and wait til they prove you wrong before you accuse. Exactly. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879.md?page=4)