# Two Questions. **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [July 21, 2008, 11:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879 "2008-07-21T11:59:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 73
**Author:** ![Treads4Heads](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/treads4heads/32/7416_2.png) [@Treads4Heads](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Treads4Heads)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 2:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879/73 "2008-07-21T14:58:47Z")
So what about the girl that would want these “friendships”, yet let the guys go too far, and not allow the guy to do anything about it? In my last relationship, I had several instances where guys (who wanted to bone her before we dated) would try and take her out to places and invite them to do things “alone”. I knew they wanted a piece due to them being mutual friends and I would always get jealous when she would go along with them anyway, and then be mad at me for getting upset. Another instance was a guy who wrote her three love letters on three consecutive days. I guess they were “friends” but a while but still, love letters? I had a little chat with him, and after I told zee woman, she wanted me to apologize to him for being “controlling” (which I never did). And finally, her first year in college she was almost raped, she called me after the incident and when I asked what his name was she would not tell me to “protect me from myself”. So I am normally not the jealous type, but do those instances make me the jealous type? I was unsure so voted herpes --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/two-questions/51879)._