# well i have some options **URL:** \ **Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [February 6, 2005, 4:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144 "2005-02-06T04:45:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![HaNnIBaL64](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/hannibal64/32/5954_2.png) [@HaNnIBaL64](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/HaNnIBaL64)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 8:42am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/21 "2005-02-06T08:42:43Z")
> [@BlueMeanieTSi](#): > > you also didn’t just turn 20 who cares i didnt really grow up until 22 either ---
**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 9:13am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/22 "2005-02-06T09:13:28Z")
> [@95greenZ](#): > > in houston…f-bodys everywhere!!! in that case id stay here :ugh: ---
**Author:** ![Quik](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/quik/32/5979_2.png) [@Quik](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Quik)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 1:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/23 "2005-02-06T13:25:00Z")
biggest question how long have you dated? under a year dont even think of it ---
**Author:** ![Shaggy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shaggy/32/5945_2.png) [@Shaggy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shaggy)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 1:29pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/24 "2005-02-06T13:29:45Z")
> [@SHAG](#): > > 🤣 you dont want to get involved working for the Girlfriends family. > It will become a nuisance and all the misery rolled up into one. > > If you do plan to move, Get a seperate job from the familys business. > You dont want the entire family knowing your personal shit either. > > Been there done that :down: ---
**Author:** ![Sight\_N\_Sound](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sight_n_sound/32/5950_2.png) [@Sight\_N\_Sound](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Sight_N_Sound)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 1:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/25 "2005-02-06T13:38:18Z")
ok guys are missing two things, He is staying with family till he gets on his feet, 2nd its her dad’s FRIEND who owns the landscaping buisness. Not t he family its self. I say if you have a way back and your parents can help you back if shit goes sour, I say take a chance and go. Everyone is different. Hell Like hannibal, I moved in with jenn 4 months after starting to date. We lived with each other first then got married. It just works for us, and it always seemed right. You can;t tell some one they are making a mistake because you are not them. Just because your situation didn’t work doesn’t mean his won’t Just if you do move down there don’t piss around with getting established. Put all your hobbies on hold and get set up. That way you don;t seem like a burden and you don;t ruin anything you may possibly have connection wise with her parents. ---
**Author:** ![Shaggy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shaggy/32/5945_2.png) [@Shaggy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shaggy)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 1:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/26 "2005-02-06T13:44:28Z")
Never said Dont do it or do it. plus 20 -30 years ago, you were expected to be married and have kids at such a young age :kekegay: ---
**Author:** ![whitey](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/whitey/32/5911_2.png) [@whitey](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/whitey)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 2:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/27 "2005-02-06T14:00:34Z")
i would say go for it if you are looking for a change in your life. if you are doing it to be with the girl, i would say no. ---
**Author:** ![Shaggy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shaggy/32/5945_2.png) [@Shaggy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shaggy)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 2:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/28 "2005-02-06T14:04:42Z")
> [@whitey](#): > > i would say go for it if you are looking for a change in your life. > > if you are doing it to be with the girl, i would say no. :whitey: :itr41: :itr41: :itr41: ---
**Author:** ![German\_with\_a\_Bowtie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/german_with_a_bowtie/32/5967_2.png) [@German\_with\_a\_Bowtie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/German_with_a_Bowtie)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 3:34pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/29 "2005-02-06T15:34:23Z")
> [@SHAG](#): > > :whitey: :itr41: :itr41: :itr41: :sex: :sex: :sex: Hit’em and run I always say. ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 3:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/30 "2005-02-06T15:56:16Z")
mti is in houston ---
**Author:** ![EcoThunder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/eb8c5e/32.png) [@EcoThunder](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/EcoThunder)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 4:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/31 "2005-02-06T16:26:06Z")
I say go for it. If you love her, you guys can get through anything! ---
**Author:** ![Turbo\_Silverado](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbo_silverado/32/5990_2.png) [@Turbo\_Silverado](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Turbo_Silverado)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 7:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/32 "2005-02-06T19:41:18Z")
> [@whitey](#): > > i would say go for it if you are looking for a change in your life. > > if you are doing it to be with the girl, i would say no. i am looking for a change…and i def. want to be with her!!! ---
**Author:** ![Sight\_N\_Sound](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sight_n_sound/32/5950_2.png) [@Sight\_N\_Sound](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Sight_N_Sound)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 7:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/33 "2005-02-06T19:44:05Z")
> [@95greenZ](#): > > i am looking for a change…and i def. want to be with her!!! do it already you fucking pussy 😃 ---
**Author:** ![OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/olds_rocketman/32/5942_2.png) [@OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OLDS_ROCKETMAN)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2005, 9:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/34 "2005-02-06T21:59:15Z")
i’m not gonna say what u should do but i’m just gonna say what i would do/did. I love pittsburgh unlike most other people who like to bad mouth it. Regardless of all the shitty things about this place, its my home, where i grew up and where i have all my memories. I’m never gonna sell out the burgh for a girl. I’ll make sacrifices and bend but my feet are staying here. If a girl loves me enough she’ll know that if she wants to be with me this is where its gonna be. My ex girl wanted so badly to move to a warm climate and it was a constant battle and i wasn’t willing to leave it all just on the basis of weather. Secondly, Olds angel is from MO and i straight up told her she wants to be with me this is where its gonna be. SHe was very close to moving and for the same reasons i wouldn’t move there she wouldn;t move here. My best friend lives in charlotte and wants me to move but he knows this is my home. My family and friends are the most important thing to me, they were around way before any girl, how do i devalue them for one person just over a romantic realtionship? I don’t belive in all that fate BS and i’m not gonna let my heart lead me around by a string. I’m not gonna be the person who visits there parents twice a year cause they feel obligated, i’mma take care of them when they need it just like they took care of me. If a girl i like wants to move then obviously we don’t have that much in common. if nothing more how the fuck would a relocate 5 cars. ---
**Author:** ![77rednecktruck](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/77rednecktruck/32/5966_2.png) [@77rednecktruck](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/77rednecktruck)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2005, 6:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/35 "2005-02-07T06:32:22Z")
> [@95greenZ](#): > > well i have been dating this girl for a year now, her name is brittny, and she is prob. the best thing that has happened to me! I love her soo much and she means soo much to me!!! But some things have come up in the past week! She, and her family is from texas, and her dads company mignt be starting up a new headquarters in houston, TX or he might be getting a different job with a new company in Houston, TX. And Brittny will be moving with them and go to college near Houston. I was left this optoin from her dad. > > I can move down to houston with them and live with her grandparents (who live her now and i konw very well) until i get on my feet and get my own place down there!! Her grandparents will live 20 min. from Brittnys parents and like 45min. from brittnys school. About a job, well for you that dont know, my dad owns a landscaping company and i have worked from him forever! Brittnys dads best friend owns a huge landscape company in Houston and has a bunch of mexicans working for him, and said i could become a foreman for him, and i was also thinking of going to school to get a degree in Landscape Design. > > Or i can stay here in da 'burgh. Be with my friends and family. And who knows maybe see brittny once and awhile. > > idk id just some opinions on what u guys or girls would do! If you love her why are you even questioning it? I would move anywhere for my wife. When we started dating, I had an offer from raleigh, but the girlfriend/wife didn’t want to move, so I stayed here. I fucking hate Pittsburgh, but would hate to have her leave her family even more. If you think she is the “one”, your only choice is to move. my $.02 ---
**Author:** ![smokeyburnouts](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/smokeyburnouts/32/5987_2.png) [@smokeyburnouts](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/smokeyburnouts)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2005, 6:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/36 "2005-02-07T06:57:28Z")
> [@77rednecktruck](#): > > If you love her why are you even questioning it? I would move anywhere for my wife. When we started dating, I had an offer from raleigh, but the girlfriend/wife didn’t want to move, so I stayed here. I fucking hate Pittsburgh, but would hate to have her leave her family even more. If you think she is the “one”, your only choice is to move. my $.02 i think this makes sense and is well put. u r the only that can make a decision, but i agree w/ this^^ ---
**Author:** ![Turbo\_Silverado](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbo_silverado/32/5990_2.png) [@Turbo\_Silverado](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Turbo_Silverado)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2005, 7:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/37 "2005-02-07T07:16:35Z")
im wanting to go…now its just putting up with my parents not wanting me to move soo far away!! ---
**Author:** ![Sight\_N\_Sound](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sight_n_sound/32/5950_2.png) [@Sight\_N\_Sound](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Sight_N_Sound)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2005, 9:07am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/38 "2005-02-07T09:07:35Z")
> [@95greenZ](#): > > im wanting to go…now its just putting up with my parents not wanting me to move soo far away!! thats just makes it eaiser to move back if shit does get really bad, they will be desperate to have you back 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Turbo\_Silverado](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbo_silverado/32/5990_2.png) [@Turbo\_Silverado](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Turbo_Silverado)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2005, 9:17am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/39 "2005-02-07T09:17:15Z")
> [@Sight N Sound](#): > > thats just makes it eaiser to move back if shit does get really bad, they will be desperate to have you back 😃 hahah ur right!!! idk…i think ill enjoy it!!! property value down there is soo cheap!!! 4 bedroom 3 baths attached 2 car garage…almost 2000 sq. feet…for like 140,000 in really nice areas!!! ---
**Author:** ![Gray05](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cc9497/32.png) [@Gray05](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gray05)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2005, 9:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-i-have-some-options/172144/40 "2005-02-07T09:27:29Z")
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