# Well, it happened again... **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [January 26, 2007, 12:36pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637 "2007-01-26T12:36:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![JustinH](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/9fc29f/32.png) [@JustinH](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JustinH)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:01pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/21 "2007-01-26T14:01:04Z")
seriously, night out with the guys is in order. My lady has been quite the pain in the ass, and i’m already organizing a night out at the cheektowaga strip clubs. ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/22 "2007-01-26T14:04:49Z")
> [@GSTairs](#): > > Don’t EVER listen to this kid…no one should. he has absolutley no idea what he is talking about. You are better off getting advice from a rock. > > IlcisDEAD… your replies are worthless, you never make any kind of sense, you give the worst advice and again the biggest scumbag on here. I don’t think any point he made was invalid. What would _YOU_ do? Clean Baldy: NEVER listen to stairs. She’s a woman and therefore is a fucking fool a total disappointment IRL. ---
**Author:** ![sureshot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sureshot/32/7578_2.png) [@sureshot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/sureshot)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/23 "2007-01-26T14:09:36Z")
lol i hate these threads for every reason ---
**Author:** ![Shrives](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shrives/32/7250_2.png) [@Shrives](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shrives)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/24 "2007-01-26T14:09:47Z")
> [@93dx--hatch](#): > > If you really want to get back together with her > > Go out and meet a new chick, girls always want what they cant have haha so true ---
**Author:** ![sureshot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sureshot/32/7578_2.png) [@sureshot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/sureshot)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:10pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/25 "2007-01-26T14:10:09Z")
second thought: baldy. just tell her how you can heel-toe an automatic. she’ll come running back ---
**Author:** ![Bacon](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bacon/32/7230_2.png) [@Bacon](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bacon)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:10pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/26 "2007-01-26T14:10:31Z")
> [@sureshot!](#): > > lol > > i hate these threads for every reason OT: Fallout PIPboy character \> \* I feel like playing that now ---
**Author:** ![sureshot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sureshot/32/7578_2.png) [@sureshot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/sureshot)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:11pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/27 "2007-01-26T14:11:53Z")
> [@FuzzyFish](#): > > OT: Fallout PIPboy character \> \* > > I feel like playing that now R E S P E C T. do you have a working copy of brotherhood of steel? i have copies of the first 2. ---
**Author:** ![taurusho](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/taurusho/32/7184_2.png) [@taurusho](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/taurusho)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/28 "2007-01-26T14:12:21Z")
> [@GSTairs](#): > > Don’t EVER listen to this kid…no one should. he has absolutley no idea what he is talking about. You are better off getting advice from a rock. > > IlcisDEAD… your replies are worthless, you never make any kind of sense, you give the worst advice and again the biggest scumbag on here. This dude isn’t just a tool, hes the whole box if you ax me. I’m glad I’m not the only person who thinks the same aboot this character. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![RuBiCaNT](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/rubicant/32/7622_2.png) [@RuBiCaNT](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RuBiCaNT)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/29 "2007-01-26T14:12:32Z")
> [@newman](#): > > I don’t think any point he made was invalid. > > What would _YOU_ do? > > Clean Baldy: NEVER listen to stairs. She’s a woman and therefore is a fucking fool a total disappointment IRL. Stairs is mad that she got made fun of by him is all. I think he had some good advice too. It sucks in the beginning when it happens but it also sounds like you have some past issues that have come back to haunt you. Regardless of how many girls cheat or don’t cheat, they are not all like that and you can’t go into every relationship thinking that. Doing so will end you up at the same stop every time. I suggest you start looking at someone closer to your age. I don’t think girls at 22 or even 24 know what they want despite them thinking so; 25 and up is always a good rule of thumb. ---
**Author:** ![sureshot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sureshot/32/7578_2.png) [@sureshot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/sureshot)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/30 "2007-01-26T14:12:58Z")
> [@taurusho](#): > > This dude isn’t just a tool, hes the whole box if you ax me. I’m glad I’m not the only person who thinks the same aboot this character. 🙂 IF YOU DONT KNOW, YOU BETTER AX’ SOMEBODY lol. :tool: ---
**Author:** ![djdstar](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/djdstar/32/7617_2.png) [@djdstar](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/djdstar)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/31 "2007-01-26T14:20:29Z")
> [@ILCisDEAD](#): > > I’ll be completely blunt on this one. > > in the beginning, hang out with friends, find a hobby, and at night when you are feeling frisky rub one out (i can’t stress it enough how much of an awesome mood changer jerking off is) or call an ex for some come on over i love you i’m sorry about the past sex, then never talk to her again. > > when you start feeling a little better about yourself, and not think about her every 15 minutes, you’ll start to notice what you didn’t like about her. Odds are you will realize that she wasnt the one for you… > > Story time: I was in a relationship for 9 months, got sent away for a short time come back, things were a little rocky before hand, i came back and was comepletely in love with her, she was what i wanted. an hour after I got back and settled in to my apartment she comes over and dropped a wicked bomb on me. She had feelings for someone else and cheated on me while i was away. But she still loved me… fucked up let me tell you… after 3 months I met someone else and realized that this new girl was a huge improvement, started to be more critical with who i was gonna see. dated her for a little bit, got some great sex out of her… and the girl that i was “in love with” means nothing to me. I realized something about her, and that was not what i wanted at all. > > Believe me this is no easy path. But i say the quicker you can say “fuck you, i don;t want you back” the faster you’ll find someone else, SOMEONE BETTER, More attractive, and will suck you off like a hoover oh ultra high. > > Oh and this Blah blah, its its meant to be… shit … fuck that crap. Nothing is “meant to be” its all a timing thing… if you are at the same points of your lives, been through this… or been though that. Destiny means nothing, its just something you hope for and get depressed about when it doesn’t swing your way… its like believing in god or soemthing … pointless and counterproductive… > > But seriously relax, don’t talk to her. > > If you really want her back, talk to other girls, ignore her sometimes (its tough), be a jerk to her at times, with in no time she won;t fucking leave you alone… fuck her a few times and move on… > > Wait… Did you say she cheated on you?? If she did, YOU are the fucking moron for taking her back for it… Once a cheater, always a fucking cheater. Scummy scummy bitches. With out sitting here and ranting how much you should just move on… > > JUST FUCKING MOVE ON > > edit: oh and the normal “if she thinks she likes you more than you like her, she’s yours” make every girl think that, and PUSSY ALL OVER!! Confidence too man… little bit of self confidence, you’ll be fighting off girls with a fucking stick real talk. baldy, come out to Third Room tonight. i’ll be spinning, and you can come find a new girl/whore since I’m sure there will be plenty. if i get a bar tab, i’ll buy you a drink. ---
**Author:** ![Violator](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/violator/32/7278_2.png) [@Violator](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Violator)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/32 "2007-01-26T14:21:06Z")
> [@GSTairs](#): > > Don’t EVER listen to this kid…no one should. he has absolutley no idea what he is talking about. You are better off getting advice from a rock. > > IlcisDEAD… your replies are worthless, you never make any kind of sense, you give the worst advice and again the biggest scumbag on here. Actually his advice and reasoning is dead on. Honest, realistic, and to the point. He makes very good sense. ---
**Author:** ![Clean\_Baldy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/clean_baldy/32/7308_2.png) [@Clean\_Baldy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Clean_Baldy)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:22pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/33 "2007-01-26T14:22:41Z")
> [@DarkkstaR](#): > > real talk. > > baldy, come out to Third Room tonight. i’ll be spinning, and you can come find a new girl/whore since I’m sure there will be plenty. if i get a bar tab, i’ll buy you a drink. If i can find someone to go with, I’ll come and hang out. I’ve wanted to hear you spin too. ---
**Author:** ![RobY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/f1d935/32.png) [@RobY](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RobY)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/34 "2007-01-26T14:26:02Z")
> [@ILCisDEAD](#): > > I’ll be completely blunt on this one. > > in the beginning, hang out with friends, find a hobby, and at night when you are feeling frisky rub one out (i can’t stress it enough how much of an awesome mood changer jerking off is) or call an ex for some come on over i love you i’m sorry about the past sex, then never talk to her again. > > when you start feeling a little better about yourself, and not think about her every 15 minutes, you’ll start to notice what you didn’t like about her. Odds are you will realize that she wasnt the one for you… > > Story time: I was in a relationship for 9 months, got sent away for a short time come back, things were a little rocky before hand, i came back and was comepletely in love with her, she was what i wanted. an hour after I got back and settled in to my apartment she comes over and dropped a wicked bomb on me. She had feelings for someone else and cheated on me while i was away. But she still loved me… fucked up let me tell you… after 3 months I met someone else and realized that this new girl was a huge improvement, started to be more critical with who i was gonna see. dated her for a little bit, got some great sex out of her… and the girl that i was “in love with” means nothing to me. I realized something about her, and that was not what i wanted at all. > > Believe me this is no easy path. But i say the quicker you can say “fuck you, i don;t want you back” the faster you’ll find someone else, SOMEONE BETTER, More attractive, and will suck you off like a hoover oh ultra high. > > Oh and this Blah blah, its its meant to be… shit … fuck that crap. Nothing is “meant to be” its all a timing thing… if you are at the same points of your lives, been through this… or been though that. Destiny means nothing, its just something you hope for and get depressed about when it doesn’t swing your way… its like believing in god or soemthing … pointless and counterproductive… > > But seriously relax, don’t talk to her. > > If you really want her back, talk to other girls, ignore her sometimes (its tough), be a jerk to her at times, with in no time she won;t fucking leave you alone… fuck her a few times and move on… > > Wait… Did you say she cheated on you?? If she did, YOU are the fucking moron for taking her back for it… Once a cheater, always a fucking cheater. Scummy scummy bitches. With out sitting here and ranting how much you should just move on… > > JUST FUCKING MOVE ON > > edit: oh and the normal “if she thinks she likes you more than you like her, she’s yours” make every girl think that, and PUSSY ALL OVER!! Confidence too man… little bit of self confidence, you’ll be fighting off girls with a fucking stick Spot fucking on! ---
**Author:** ![ILCisDEAD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a87d85/32.png) [@ILCisDEAD](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ILCisDEAD)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:39pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/35 "2007-01-26T14:39:43Z")
> [@GSTairs](#): > > Don’t EVER listen to this kid…no one should. he has absolutley no idea what he is talking about. You are better off getting advice from a rock. > > IlcisDEAD… your replies are worthless, you never make any kind of sense, you give the worst advice and again the biggest scumbag on here. Time for resolve… What have I done to make you hate me? Post or PM me. If i was an asshole to you, I will apologize. edit: Really not trying to hijack this thread ---
**Author:** ![Clean\_Baldy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/clean_baldy/32/7308_2.png) [@Clean\_Baldy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Clean_Baldy)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/36 "2007-01-26T14:41:28Z")
I am going to just wait it out. You could be correct that it will just take time. Doing something now will just push her away. Waiting, she still may be gone… but, she may see my resolve and come back to be rational and talk. It is probably over. But, I can’t beat myself up over it. I just have to wait, and see. The words “It is 100% over” havent crossed her lips. Just her being upset, and badgering on about my bad points, and how shes sick of it. ---
**Author:** ![micah](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/micah/32/7257_2.png) [@micah](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/micah)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/37 "2007-01-26T14:47:00Z")
shes using her parents as an excuse to rid of u ☹ ---
**Author:** ![RedGoober4Life](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/redgoober4life/32/7610_2.png) [@RedGoober4Life](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RedGoober4Life)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/38 "2007-01-26T14:47:12Z")
Don will you play Sandwiches by the Detroit Grand Pubahs? ---
**Author:** ![djdstar](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/djdstar/32/7617_2.png) [@djdstar](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/djdstar)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 2:51pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/39 "2007-01-26T14:51:22Z")
> [@Clean Baldy](#): > > If i can find someone to go with, I’ll come and hang out. I’ve wanted to hear you spin too. No doubt. I’ll be there 10:30pm on. ---
**Author:** ![fbrendan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d26b3c/32.png) [@fbrendan](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fbrendan)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 3:10pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637/40 "2007-01-26T15:10:56Z")
[http://www.nyspeed.com/forums/showthread.php?t=24223&highlight=guv](http://www.nyspeed.com/forums/showthread.php?t=24223&highlight=guv) Just keep thinking about what’s really important. And girls are trouble. :gotme: [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/well-it-happened-again/23637.md?page=3)