# What should I do about a creepy kid harassing my gf at her work?

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**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [November 13, 2008, 9:14pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141 "2008-11-13T21:14:50Z")\
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**Author:** ![Dex](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dex/32/7210_2.png) [@Dex](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dex)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 4:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/81 "2008-11-14T16:35:30Z")

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i talked to cait about it and she said to mind your own business. if she wants to sleep around, she’ll do it.

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**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 4:37pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/82 "2008-11-14T16:37:06Z")

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What would Wayne Brady do?

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**Author:** ![layzie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/layzie/32/7599_2.png) [@layzie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/layzie)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 4:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/83 "2008-11-14T16:48:37Z")

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nudes of said gf?

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**Author:** ![Dex](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dex/32/7210_2.png) [@Dex](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dex)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 9:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/84 "2008-11-14T21:17:02Z")

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> [@layzie](#):
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> nudes of said gf?

She showed me her boobs tonight when jam was in the other room. :tup:

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**Author:** ![PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psngrseatsr4boys/32/3078_2.png) [@PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PsngrSeatsR4Boys)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 9:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/85 "2008-11-14T21:26:49Z")

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dan said to use your italian side, even though he is not italian he would beat the shit out of a guy harassing me. he just added, if you were a real italian you’d break his fucking knees.

i think you need to have one strongly worded conversation with him, if that goes poorly then you may beat him.

as far as school goes, i’m not sure what they can do. maybe because she isn’t a student and she is an employee they could probably just give him the boot. he sounds like a total creep, i’m concerned for cait if more action is taken in that he might become irrate and do something more than just creepy.

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**Author:** ![Gus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/gus/32/5112_2.png) [@Gus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gus)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 9:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/86 "2008-11-14T21:43:38Z")

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Jam, I think nyspeed has had enough of your procrastinating.

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**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 9:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/87 "2008-11-14T21:44:53Z")

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lets just have a nyspeed meet

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**Author:** ![Haenszel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e68b1a/32.png) [@Haenszel](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Haenszel)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 9:45pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/88 "2008-11-14T21:45:21Z")

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sorry jam… i’ll dropout on monday.

PS… you might want to get checked.

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**Author:** ![rj-92](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/rj-92/32/7310_2.png) [@rj-92](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/rj-92)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 9:51pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/89 "2008-11-14T21:51:34Z")

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I think you should send him pics of ur junk.

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**Author:** ![snowracer101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@snowracer101](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/snowracer101)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 10:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/90 "2008-11-14T22:04:35Z")

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reminds me of my ex gf.  
I worked with her at a dealership, i’d always talk to her and flirt/ask her to hang out even though i knew she had a bf.  
her bf threatened me, then punched me at a party, I returned and knocked him out, fucked his gf, then dated her for a few months.

i’m “that” guy for sure.

Jam, don’t get involved, i’m sure if you leave it to her she will tell him off with out you even having to do anything…

if he doesn’t stop then, then punch him out

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**Author:** ![Gus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/gus/32/5112_2.png) [@Gus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gus)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 10:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/91 "2008-11-14T22:07:09Z")

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> [@sedlmeier101](#):
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> Jam, don’t get involved, i’m sure if you leave it to her she will tell him off with out you even having to do anything…

Yeah let it go…

Maybe you wont find out about him slipping his cock in her.

edy: What ever happened to chivalry?

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**Author:** ![Bassdegrime](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bassdegrime/32/5027_2.png) [@Bassdegrime](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bassdegrime)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 10:14pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/92 "2008-11-14T22:14:49Z")

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bitches killed chivalry

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**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 10:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/93 "2008-11-14T22:20:04Z")

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> [@Bassdegrime](#):
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> bitches killed chivalry

probably the economy too

they usually have no clue whats going on anyways.

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**Author:** ![Minglor](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/minglor/32/7373_2.png) [@Minglor](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Minglor)\
**Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 11:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/94 "2008-11-14T23:25:47Z")

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Jam.

Let me know.

Minglor.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 6:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/95 "2008-11-15T06:04:33Z")

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talk to him in a scare the shit out of him way

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**Author:** ![98SS10](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/98ss10/32/7288_2.png) [@98SS10](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/98SS10)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 7:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/96 "2008-11-15T07:27:28Z")

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wanna scare em? walk him to his car, throw him against the car, tell him how much you would enjoy pounding his face into hamburger and “have a good night” that is subtle and should send the message u r looking to get across.fuck tuesday, find him.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 7:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/97 "2008-11-15T07:54:21Z")

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> [@98SS10](#):
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> wanna scare em? walk him to his car, throw him against the car, tell him how much you would enjoy pounding his face into hamburger and “have a good night” that is subtle and should send the message u r looking to get across.fuck tuesday, find him.

Taking advice for the flaming dragon who got divorced :tdown:

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 7:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/98 "2008-11-15T07:56:37Z")

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> [@sedlmeier101](#):
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> Jam, don’t get involved, i’m sure if you leave it to her she will tell him off with out you even having to do anything…
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> if he doesn’t stop then, then punch him out

I agree. Do not get involved unless she wants you to. Ask her if it is Ok for you to speak to him about it. If she is fine with that then politely tell him he is creeping your girl out and she does not want him talking to her. If he continues then speak to him again but not as nice as the first time. If he still continues then kick his ass.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 8:07am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/99 "2008-11-15T08:07:39Z")

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^ yeah listen to what your woman tells you…

thats the worst advice ever…

If she’s not capable of telling this guy off, but can tell you to not do anything… Why should you listen if he doesn’t.  
Women are all like this. Too nice, and don’t know how to be mean.  
She’s getting walked on, and so are you.

Be a man. Take care of this. I thought you were Irish.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 8:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/100 "2008-11-15T08:12:14Z")

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Just throwing it out there, My ex was the same way and because I had a talk with this guy who was sending her love letters, it lead to a 30 day argument about how I am too controlling and eventually lead to a break up. Just make sure shes cool with it

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