# What should I do about a creepy kid harassing my gf at her work? **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [November 13, 2008, 9:14pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141 "2008-11-13T21:14:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 6
**Author:** ![Geehee](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/geehee/32/7238_2.png) [@Geehee](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Geehee)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 8:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/101 "2008-11-15T08:33:54Z")
> [@Treads4Heads](#): > > Just throwing it out there, My ex was the same way and because I had a talk with this guy who was sending her love letters, it lead to a 30 day argument about how I am too controlling and eventually lead to a break up. Just make sure shes cool with it she was fucking him. ---
**Author:** ![tpgsr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tpgsr/32/7374_2.png) [@tpgsr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/tpgsr)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 8:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/102 "2008-11-15T08:38:36Z")
^ word. Been there done that. I wouldn’t have the the argument go for 30 days. If you think I am controlling by keeping some scum bag away from you, fuck off, you are probably sucking his dick and these letters mean something. ---
**Author:** ![Treads4Heads](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/treads4heads/32/7416_2.png) [@Treads4Heads](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Treads4Heads)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 8:40am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/103 "2008-11-15T08:40:56Z")
I wish ☹ Then I would have had reason to fuck him up. buttttttttttttt it did turn out she was fucking this other guy, and after we split she went into hiding for like 8 months so I would have time to “get over her” before she told me what happened. Hopefully he will put up with all the shit that I wouldn’t, but at least she was a good fuck while she was around. ---
**Author:** ![NYstanger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/6a8cbe/32.png) [@NYstanger](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/NYstanger)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 9:09am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/104 "2008-11-15T09:09:59Z")
Go there when he is there. Introduce yourself and tell him your gf has told you alot about him. Mention about the three of you hanging out sometime throwing back some beers and having a good time. All the while keep glancing down at his crotch. Problem should be solved in a comical means. :tup: Unless he’s up to it then resort to threat. lol ---
**Author:** ![double\_j](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/double_j/32/7380_2.png) [@double\_j](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/double_j)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 9:18am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/105 "2008-11-15T09:18:19Z")
> [@Jam"](#): > > the angry possessive italian part of me wants to hunt him down and choke the shit out of him. but the logical (irish) part of me wants to just go there and talk to him. maybe if he knows i actually exist and he can put a face to this girl’s bf he will finally leave her alone. Strike a balance. Meet him and tell him a story about how you beat the crap out of someone for spilling drink on her or something. Like crazy beat the crap out of someone. ---
**Author:** ![PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psngrseatsr4boys/32/3078_2.png) [@PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PsngrSeatsR4Boys)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 10:18am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/106 "2008-11-15T10:18:40Z")
> [@Haenszel](#): > > sorry jam… i’ll dropout on monday. > > PS… you might want to get checked. you are sick brian haenszel. ---
**Author:** ![snowracer101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@snowracer101](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/snowracer101)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 10:40am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/107 "2008-11-15T10:40:07Z")
NO offense jam, but I solely believe when girls tell you about a guy at work, they try to make you jealous. I’m not saying she wants anything to do with this guy, and probably despises of him, but she is using it as a tool, basically saying, “hey, if you treat me like shit there is other dudes out there who will do anything for me” My girlfriend always tells me about dudes being creepy and I just brush it off. Think about the last time a girl was hitting on you at work/school. Did you run home and tell your gf? NO. The only time I tell my gf if another girl is bothering me, is when she tells me a guy is bothering her. Your girlfriend is using this as a tool to get you jealous, girls LOVE doing that, and they love to be in the center of attention. I’d say just lay off and let her deal with it, kind of use a “i don’t really care” attitude, and if she is really bothered by him, she’ll do something about it. ---
**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 10:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/108 "2008-11-15T10:41:31Z")
everything true^ ---
**Author:** ![PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psngrseatsr4boys/32/3078_2.png) [@PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PsngrSeatsR4Boys)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 12:24pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/109 "2008-11-15T12:24:01Z")
> [@sedlmeier101](#): > > Your girlfriend is using this as a tool to get you jealous, girls LOVE doing that, and they love to be in the center of attention. > I’d say just lay off and let her deal with it, kind of use a “i don’t really care” attitude, and if she is really bothered by him, she’ll do something about it. she’s not even close to being that girl. ---
**Author:** ![Shockwave179](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shockwave179/32/7496_2.png) [@Shockwave179](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shockwave179)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 12:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/110 "2008-11-15T12:25:17Z")
> [@sedlmeier101](#): > > Your girlfriend is using this as a tool to get you jealous, girls LOVE doing that, and they love to be in the center of attention. > I’d say just lay off and let her deal with it, kind of use a “i don’t really care” attitude, and if she is really bothered by him, she’ll do something about it. Only retarded girls or one’s you have broken up with do shit like that. ---
**Author:** ![snowracer101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@snowracer101](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/snowracer101)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 1:50pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/111 "2008-11-15T13:50:45Z")
> [@PsngrSeatsR4Boys](#): > > she’s not even close to being that girl. EVERY GIRL DOES THAT, some to a lesser extent than others. > [@Shockwave179](#): > > Only retarded girls or one’s you have broken up with do shit like that. see above. ---
**Author:** ![Clean\_Baldy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/clean_baldy/32/7308_2.png) [@Clean\_Baldy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Clean_Baldy)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 2:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/112 "2008-11-15T14:00:05Z")
The next time you eat your girl out just remember that there’s probably a little bit of taste left from the “creepy guy” left in there 🙂 Good luck with your hunting! I hope it works out as I can expect with any 18 year old girl and conflict. ---
**Author:** ![Jam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jam/32/7235_2.png) [@Jam](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jam)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 3:29pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/113 "2008-11-15T15:29:55Z")
> [@Clean Baldy](#): > > The next time you eat your girl out just remember that there’s probably a little bit of taste left from the “creepy guy” left in there 🙂 > > Good luck with your hunting! I hope it works out as I can expect with any 18 year old girl and conflict. in order- paragraph 1 = fucked up, paragraph 2 = makes no sense ---
**Author:** ![Smaefer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e79b87/32.png) [@Smaefer](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Smaefer)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 5:01pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/114 "2008-11-15T17:01:39Z")
just do a Smaef move, snap out and choke the shit out if him. It will make you warm and fuzzy on the inside after you do it. ---
**Author:** ![Wahoo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/wahoo/32/8265_2.png) [@Wahoo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Wahoo)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 6:42pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/115 "2008-11-15T18:42:50Z")
> [@95LS1t](#): > > I would also wear a trenchcoat,and if it hot out, it will make it even creepier! Keep the trenchcoat closed but wear no pants shocks or shoe’s… that’ll creep him out and teach him to be creepy! If you enjoy fighting people, mine as well kick his ass, because relationships are not gauranteed, but if you enjoy kicking people’s ass’s then thats a gaurantee 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![manhagen](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/manhagen/32/7336_2.png) [@manhagen](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/manhagen)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2008, 9:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/116 "2008-11-16T21:58:21Z")
> [@sedlmeier101](#): > > snip jam’s lady isnt 17 like everyone you date ---
**Author:** ![snowracer101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@snowracer101](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/snowracer101)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2008, 9:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/117 "2008-11-16T21:59:54Z")
> [@gotdubd](#): > > jam’s lady isnt 17 like everyone you date i’ve dated girls older than me too. they’re all the same ---
**Author:** ![double\_j](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/double_j/32/7380_2.png) [@double\_j](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/double_j)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 7:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/118 "2008-11-18T19:31:44Z")
> [@sedlmeier101](#): > > i’ve dated girls older than me too. > they’re all the same Could be the girls you select? Just sayin’. ---
**Author:** ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)\ **Post date:** [November 19, 2008, 6:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/119 "2008-11-19T06:03:10Z")
So was this dude fisted yet or what? ---
**Author:** ![nitroinsane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/d26b3c/32.png) [@nitroinsane](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/nitroinsane)\ **Post date:** [November 19, 2008, 6:10am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-should-i-do-about-a-creepy-kid-harassing-my-gf-at-her-work/58141/120 "2008-11-19T06:10:05Z")
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