# what to say? **URL:** \ **Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [March 10, 2005, 12:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866 "2005-03-10T12:12:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/olds_rocketman/32/5942_2.png) [@OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OLDS_ROCKETMAN)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/1 "2005-03-10T12:12:37Z")
i’m talking to olds angel and her dad is in the hospital dying. I don’t know what to say. i mean i feel all terrible and i said all the typical things but i’m like at a loss for words right now. :dunno: ---
**Author:** ![77rednecktruck](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/77rednecktruck/32/5966_2.png) [@77rednecktruck](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/77rednecktruck)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/2 "2005-03-10T12:15:30Z")
their ain’t anything you can say. That fucking blows ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Quik](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/quik/32/5979_2.png) [@Quik](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Quik)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/3 "2005-03-10T12:16:34Z")
honorable thing to do if you could is show up, but if you cant then tell her your ear is always hear for her to talk to ---
**Author:** ![Turbo\_Silverado](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbo_silverado/32/5990_2.png) [@Turbo\_Silverado](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Turbo_Silverado)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/4 "2005-03-10T12:17:30Z")
wow that sucks…sorry to hear…and there isnt much to say like 77 said…it just sucks…sorry to hear ---
**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:19pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/5 "2005-03-10T12:19:31Z")
…tell her i said sorry to hear ---
**Author:** ![OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/olds_rocketman/32/5942_2.png) [@OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OLDS_ROCKETMAN)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/6 "2005-03-10T12:20:34Z")
> [@Quik](#): > > honorable thing to do if you could is show up, but if you cant then tell her your ear is always hear for her to talk to i think she understands that i can’t make it down to st louie. I wrote her a long email just telling her to keep her head up and just positive stuff. she knows i’m a call away and i do mostly just sit and listen and she appricaites that. Its not her biological father but its the man she knows as dad for the past 22 years. ---
**Author:** ![Quik](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/quik/32/5979_2.png) [@Quik](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Quik)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:22pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/7 "2005-03-10T12:22:10Z")
dude its going ot affect her badly. trust me on this one mom’s passing is coming on 2 years in a week and it still messes me up. all you can do is support her, its going ot get rough. maybe cash in some flyermiles ---
**Author:** ![ninjenn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c67d28/32.png) [@ninjenn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ninjenn)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:22pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/8 "2005-03-10T12:22:49Z")
> [@BlkP42E](#): > > …tell her i said sorry to hear ---
**Author:** ![OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/olds_rocketman/32/5942_2.png) [@OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OLDS_ROCKETMAN)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/9 "2005-03-10T12:26:17Z")
> [@Quik](#): > > dude its going ot affect her badly. trust me on this one mom’s passing is coming on 2 years in a week and it still messes me up. all you can do is support her, its going ot get rough. maybe cash in some flyermiles i don’t got no miles and i can’t change my tickets to tampa cause i’m going wednesday. he’s in bad shape but might live for 6 more months. All i can do is just wait by the phone for her when she needs me. ---
**Author:** ![Quik](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/quik/32/5979_2.png) [@Quik](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Quik)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/10 "2005-03-10T12:28:17Z")
all you can do, all you really can do. dont be surprised that she turns for a shoulder to cry on or do opposite and hide it in. i hid it and it really affected jamie ---
**Author:** ![OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/olds_rocketman/32/5942_2.png) [@OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OLDS_ROCKETMAN)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2005, 12:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/what-to-say/172866/11 "2005-03-10T12:31:10Z")
> [@Quik](#): > > all you can do, all you really can do. dont be surprised that she turns for a shoulder to cry on or do opposite and hide it in. i hid it and it really affected jamie well i’m not exactly the man in her life anymore but still best friends. She’s being the rock for her family right now so i know its only a matter of time till the dam breaks.