# When are YOU getting married? (now with "already married" option)

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043>\
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [September 27, 2007, 9:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043 "2007-09-27T09:32:52Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![drvnkd](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/drvnkd/32/109615_2.png) [@drvnkd](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/drvnkd)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 9:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/21 "2007-09-27T09:55:56Z")

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[quote=“newman,post:4,topic:36043"”]

exactly why i’d make the poll. I wonder who shares my views…

Fuck, i forgot to add “i’m already married”

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you also forgot…  
“i’m going to marry the 1st vag I get”

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 9:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/22 "2007-09-27T09:56:06Z")

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[quote=“boardjnky4,post:20,topic:36043"”]

where is the 3+ year option for ppl that DO have gf’s

Zong, I second you

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there’s a 5 year option.

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**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 10:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/23 "2007-09-27T10:02:44Z")

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NEVER!!!

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**Author:** ![slow84ta](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/slow84ta/32/7265_2.png) [@slow84ta](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/slow84ta)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 10:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/24 "2007-09-27T10:03:30Z")

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already am, so I can’t vote

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**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 10:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/25 "2007-09-27T10:03:37Z")

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Prob. 10 years.

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**Author:** ![chino](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/bcef8e/32.png) [@chino](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/chino)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 10:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/26 "2007-09-27T10:11:22Z")

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[quote=“Zong,post:18,topic:36043"”]

this thread makes me think about stuff I don’t want to think about.

:tdown:

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haha owned

i can’t even vote 😕

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**Author:** ![n20junkie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/n20junkie/32/7396_2.png) [@n20junkie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/n20junkie)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 10:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/27 "2007-09-27T10:14:21Z")

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got engaged a few months ago, getting married in about 18 months or so. Have some of that war/deployment stuff going on right now.

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**Author:** ![Mrs\_Karus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mrs_karus/32/7426_2.png) [@Mrs\_Karus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mrs_Karus)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 10:15am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/28 "2007-09-27T10:15:55Z")

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Where is the “i’m doin it common law” option?

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**Author:** ![Silver](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/silver/32/4953_2.png) [@Silver](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Silver)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 10:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/29 "2007-09-27T10:36:21Z")

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Haha, I was curious to see if my boyfriend, dmoffitt, answered. He didn’t, lol.

We’ve talked though, and are very open about it. He never wants to get married, I do eventually. We’re just going with the flow because it’s not worth stressing over. We enjoy each other’s company right here, right now. Not worried about 5 years from now.

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**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 10:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/30 "2007-09-27T10:41:24Z")

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[quote=“Silver,post:29,topic:36043"”]

I am also doing it common law.

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:nono:

Sorry, couldn’t pass it up! 😛

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**Author:** ![drvnkd](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/drvnkd/32/109615_2.png) [@drvnkd](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/drvnkd)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 10:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/31 "2007-09-27T10:46:15Z")

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nyspeed - your next domestic partner is waiting ?

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**Author:** ![zwarbyt](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/zwarbyt/32/7623_2.png) [@zwarbyt](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/zwarbyt)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 11:10am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/32 "2007-09-27T11:10:53Z")

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i am never getting married, or if i do it will be off the books, just a verbal ring thing

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**Author:** ![JDMSIR](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jdmsir/32/7376_2.png) [@JDMSIR](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JDMSIR)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 11:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/33 "2007-09-27T11:12:01Z")

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july 25th 2008

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**Author:** ![JaysGreenLX](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jaysgreenlx/32/7321_2.png) [@JaysGreenLX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JaysGreenLX)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 11:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/34 "2007-09-27T11:12:31Z")

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[quote=“newman,post:4,topic:36043"”]

Fuck, i forgot to add “i’m already married”

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I feel neglected ☹

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**Author:** ![Pauly](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pauly/32/7493_2.png) [@Pauly](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pauly)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 11:15am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/35 "2007-09-27T11:15:36Z")

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married 14 years and counting here. I did good, we even still get along.

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**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 11:15am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/36 "2007-09-27T11:15:57Z")

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[quote=“zwarbyt,post:32,topic:36043"”]

i am never getting married, or if i do it will be off the books, just a verbal ring thing

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All the joys of marriage without the tax or insurance breaks?

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**Author:** ![chino](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/bcef8e/32.png) [@chino](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/chino)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 11:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/37 "2007-09-27T11:16:58Z")

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[quote=“BikerFry,post:36,topic:36043"”]

All the joys of marriage without the tax or insurance breaks?

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and the fact that she can likely still take half your shit anyways, don’t forget that.

oh also, clearly no chance at a pre-nup since you never actually got married

😛

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**Author:** ![JaysGreenLX](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jaysgreenlx/32/7321_2.png) [@JaysGreenLX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JaysGreenLX)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 11:17am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/38 "2007-09-27T11:17:34Z")

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[quote=“BikerFry,post:36,topic:36043"”]

All the joys of marriage without the tax or insurance breaks?

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Oh, how I do enjoy those. 😃

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**Author:** ![psphinx81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@psphinx81](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psphinx81)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 11:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/39 "2007-09-27T11:19:50Z")

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ill stick to slampieces

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**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2007, 11:24am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/when-are-you-getting-married-now-with-already-married-option/36043/40 "2007-09-27T11:24:16Z")

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The way things are going right now, I’m 22 and can’t even think about getting hitched.

I don’t plan on settling down when I finish school either.

International Travel \>\>\> marriage

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