# Why do people need others to hold their hand? **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [December 20, 2009, 6:08am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204 "2009-12-20T06:08:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Alpine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/4da419/32.png) [@Alpine](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Alpine)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:08am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/21 "2009-12-20T11:08:23Z")
> [@Quest For The CUP! Rd.1 Game .1](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/quest-for-the-cup-rd-1-game-1/27515/32): > > **quit the fucking job so someone who will work hard at it can make some sort of living doing it.** Don’t forget to collect UI and SSI :number1 ---
**Author:** ![Auto0utcast1](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/auto0utcast1/32/6546_2.png) [@Auto0utcast1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Auto0utcast1)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:09am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/22 "2009-12-20T11:09:18Z")
> [@Heads up on engine puller and engine stand sale from harbor freight](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/heads-up-on-engine-puller-and-engine-stand-sale-from-harbor-freight/27420/14): > > Don’t forget to collect UI and SSI :number1 wat? ---
**Author:** ![Vovchandr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vovchandr/32/6275_2.png) [@Vovchandr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vovchandr)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/23 "2009-12-20T11:12:36Z")
> [@should i trade the teg?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/should-i-trade-the-teg/27503/2): > > While complaining about being lazy you are in fact contradicting yourself in your argument here. You know it’s funny how you say that the other side is lazy and that you have worked hard to get to where you are at and work all these long hours by yourself… And then you go and fight for the position where you want everything to be done and handed to you, for you. ---
**Author:** ![GearheadNY.com](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9de053/32.png) [@GearheadNY.com](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/GearheadNY.com)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:15am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/24 "2009-12-20T11:15:19Z")
I guess that’s the goal. Eventually some will get there and others will always be working for the person that got there. ---
**Author:** ![JClark](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jclark/32/6309_2.png) [@JClark](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JClark)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:15am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/25 "2009-12-20T11:15:26Z")
> [@A good night's sleep....](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/a-good-nights-sleep/27517/9): > > And then you go and fight for the position where you want everything to be done and handed to you, for you. That isnt at all what he’s saying, but that was a grade A word twist ya done there. ---
**Author:** ![GearheadNY.com](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9de053/32.png) [@GearheadNY.com](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/GearheadNY.com)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/26 "2009-12-20T11:19:32Z")
Definitely a good one, lol. But, not every customer service person making crap for pay is complaining about it. Some people are good with it and others can’t stand it. Maybe it’s envy because you know the jackass asking where the bathroom is has already gotten “there” or maybe you just don’t care or maybe you just feel like making life more interesting, lol. ---
**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/27 "2009-12-20T11:29:47Z")
Like Chris said, If I’m holding one back and the bathroom is not in immediate, plain sight, I’m asking, leaving you with two choices- 1)Tell me where it is or 2)Clean up a TurboTravis size shit off your floor And as far as the pumps go, some are not labeled clearly. With all that said though, I’m a very self-supporting person and get irritated at people that don’t even ATTEMPT to figure out something themselves in a situation where that is the norm (finding something in Wal-Mart, etc) ---
**Author:** ![Auto0utcast1](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/auto0utcast1/32/6546_2.png) [@Auto0utcast1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Auto0utcast1)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:34am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/28 "2009-12-20T11:34:27Z")
> [@TurboTravis"](#): > > Like Chris said, If I’m holding one back and the bathroom is not in immediate, plain sight, I’m asking, leaving you with two choices- > > 1)Tell me where it is > > or > > 2) **_Clean up a TurboTravis size, Banana shaped shit off your floor_** > > And as far as the pumps go, some are not labeled clearly. > > With all that said though, I’m a very self-supporting person and get irritated at people that don’t even ATTEMPT to figure out something themselves in a situation where that is the norm (finding something in Wal-Mart, etc) edited for posterity. ---
**Author:** ![GearheadNY.com](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9de053/32.png) [@GearheadNY.com](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/GearheadNY.com)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/29 "2009-12-20T11:35:16Z")
> [@TurboTravis"](#): > > Like Chris said, If I’m holding one back and the bathroom is not in immediate, plain sight, I’m asking, leaving you with two choices- > > 1)Tell me where it is > > or > > 2)Clean up a TurboTravis size shit off your floor > > And as far as the pumps go, some are not labeled clearly. > > With all that said though, I’m a very self-supporting person and get irritated at people that don’t even ATTEMPT to figure out something themselves in a situation where that is the norm (finding something in Wal-Mart, etc) Def agree on that one. Walmart enthusiasm FTL for the most part. ---
**Author:** ![Vovchandr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vovchandr/32/6275_2.png) [@Vovchandr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vovchandr)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/30 "2009-12-20T11:37:18Z")
> [@TurboTravis"](#): > > Like Chris said, If I’m holding one back and the bathroom is not in immediate, plain sight, I’m asking, leaving you with two choices- > > 1)Tell me where it is > > or > > 2)Clean up a TurboTravis size shit off your floor > > And as far as the pumps go, some are not labeled clearly. > > With all that said though, I’m a very self-supporting person and get irritated at people that don’t even ATTEMPT to figure out something themselves in a situation where that is the norm (finding something in Wal-Mart, etc) In my situation it’s clearly labeled and it takes longer to approach cashier and ask, then to twist your head and look. In 99FRC’s world, it’s perfectly normal to approach an employee in Walmart and just have them as your personal guide throughout the day to find everything you need in the store, because, well that’s what they are there for. :ponder Not counting the fact that often taking an employee away to find something that is out in the isle and is labeled causes lines to happen and force the people _who did find everything by themselves_ to wait longer because you were too stupid to do it yourself. ---
**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/31 "2009-12-20T11:39:29Z")
> [@whats up](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/whats-up/27493/10): > > edited for posterity. My shits are over the water level most of the time, double-triple flushing is the norm. Oh, Vlad, when I worked at Colgan, you probably rang me up countless times, ha. Who was the tall, skinny, cracked out kid that worked there? Was that Failvis? ---
**Author:** ![Auto0utcast1](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/auto0utcast1/32/6546_2.png) [@Auto0utcast1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Auto0utcast1)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/32 "2009-12-20T11:46:10Z")
> [@The "OMG what should I buy?" thread..](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/the-omg-what-should-i-buy-thread/27501/19): > > Oh, Vlad, when I worked at Colgan, you probably rang me up countless times, ha. Who was the tall, skinny, cracked out kid that worked there? Was that Failvis? no. ---
**Author:** ![Vovchandr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vovchandr/32/6275_2.png) [@Vovchandr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vovchandr)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/33 "2009-12-20T11:51:33Z")
> [@Would you switch over to E85?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-switch-over-to-e85/27388/22): > > My shits are over the water level most of the time, double-triple flushing is the norm. > > Oh, Vlad, when I worked at Colgan, you probably rang me up countless times, ha. Who was the tall, skinny, cracked out kid that worked there? Was that Failvis? I may have, I know a bunch of guys from there, good crew. You may be thinking of Dan, Jay, Dayton or one of the overnight kids. Description fits all of them :lol ---
**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/34 "2009-12-20T11:54:03Z")
> [@Not to be eerie... (Death related.)](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/not-to-be-eerie-death-related/27496/36): > > I may have, I know a bunch of guys from there, good crew. > > You may be thinking of Dan, Jay, Dayton or one of the overnight kids. > > Description fits all of them :lol If you know Tim Kelly, Shawn Krutz, Brian Dusaauet (sp) or Phil DeSeve, tell him Travis said hi. ---
**Author:** ![plaf713](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/439d5e/32.png) [@plaf713](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/plaf713)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 7:18pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/35 "2009-12-20T19:18:20Z")
im with you vlad, people are dumb. I worked my 6 years of my “working life” (16-22) in a discount retail store which we carried mostly building materials and other misc. things. I was asked the stupidest questions on a regular basis, used to piss me off so much. There were times where we wouldnt carry an item and i felt as if i were a google search site because the person would ask me who would carry it, if i actually answered them then i would have to tell them where that store was located, how to get there, what the price might be and so on and so on. I will forever be scarred from retail work. Thankfully i have graduated and moved on and it feels amazing. I feel as if everyone should work retail atleast once in there life, they people will understand why they dont get the service that they are looking for. ---
**Author:** ![Mike3](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mike3/32/6350_2.png) [@Mike3](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mike3)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 7:52pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/36 "2009-12-20T19:52:19Z")
Right there with ya. ---
**Author:** ![Singh1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ba8739/32.png) [@Singh1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Singh1)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 8:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/37 "2009-12-20T20:00:20Z")
> [@should i trade the teg?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/should-i-trade-the-teg/27503/2): > > While complaining about being lazy you are in fact contradicting yourself in your argument here. > > For some people it is just easier to take the extra 20 seconds to go inside and ask the customer service rep where the bathroom is rather than spend 5 minutes looking for the bathroom only to find you need a key from said rep in order to get in. > > Now let me ask you a question: How long does it take you to say, " Yes, we have a bathroom. It is around the corner." ? I may have missed it but the last time I checked being a gas station attendant ranks pretty low on the “IQ Required to Work Here” scale. IMO, to whoever is making this argument, I would say to them, It is your JOB to support your customers. Take the extra 10 seconds to tell them where the bathroom is or to look out the window when they are pointing at their car at the pump. > > Moral: Don’t bitch about people being lazy when your are in fact BEING lazy. my point, agreed - 1 dont worry vlad is a nazi who is way overqualified for his job, so this kinda stuff happens ---
**Author:** ![Hooked\_on\_240](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Hooked\_on\_240](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Hooked_on_240)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 8:33pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/38 "2009-12-20T20:33:20Z")
> [@Whos getting a pair of these???](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/whos-getting-a-pair-of-these/27500/11): > > Oh for the record a person just asking for the bathroom is typically not buying anything so technically he’s not a customer just a freeloader :tongue DA FUCK ? i walk into your mobil to goto the bathroom on the way to cp alot. ---
**Author:** ![94Gt5.0](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/94gt5.0/32/6377_2.png) [@94Gt5.0](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/94Gt5.0)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 8:45pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/39 "2009-12-20T20:45:49Z")
> [@FS: Integra Front/Rear Disc Brake Setup, B18A Longblock, F22 Longblock](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-integra-front-rear-disc-brake-setup-b18a-longblock-f22-longblock/27347/5): > > In 99FRC’s world, it’s perfectly normal to approach an employee in Walmart and just have them as your personal guide throughout the day to find everything you need in the store, because, well that’s what they are there for. :ponder > > Not counting the fact that often taking an employee away to find something that is out in the isle and is labeled causes lines to happen and force the people _who did find everything by themselves_ to wait longer because you were too stupid to do it yourself. Ive asked walmart employee’s where shit is before. Sometimes ya just dont have the time to bullshit around and go through isle and isle to find something. Plus, they get PAID for doing their JOB, which is customer service. ---
**Author:** ![94Gt5.0](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/94gt5.0/32/6377_2.png) [@94Gt5.0](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/94Gt5.0)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 8:46pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204/40 "2009-12-20T20:46:47Z")
> [@Spotted (With Pic): Cadillac Race Car driving in the rain !!](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/spotted-with-pic-cadillac-race-car-driving-in-the-rain/27537/5): > > im with you vlad, people are dumb. I worked my 6 years of my “working life” (16-22) in a discount retail store which we carried mostly building materials and other misc. things. I was asked the stupidest questions on a regular basis, used to piss me off so much. There were times where we wouldnt carry an item and i felt as if i were a google search site because the person would ask me who would carry it, if i actually answered them then i would have to tell them where that store was located, how to get there, what the price might be and so on and so on. I will forever be scarred from retail work. Thankfully i have graduated and moved on and it feels amazing. I feel as if everyone should work retail atleast once in there life, they people will understand why they dont get the service that they are looking for. thats ridiculous, but asking where something is isnt imo. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/why-do-people-need-others-to-hold-their-hand/249204.md?page=3)