# Would you get married if .... **URL:** \ **Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [January 23, 2006, 10:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729 "2006-01-23T22:16:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![berad](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/berad/32/5953_2.png) [@berad](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/berad)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 6:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/21 "2006-01-24T06:21:08Z")
I hate bitches with 2 last names…they are usually difficult bitches and I wouldnt wanna get married to one. If you do, assume your marriage will be temporary lol. I only plan on getting married once and if the girl doesn’t recognize who her owner is then it ain’t gonna happen 🙂 It comes with the territory, call me old school… ---
**Author:** ![SVshine03](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@SVshine03](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SVshine03)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 6:24am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/22 "2006-01-24T06:24:24Z")
> [@Be\_Rad](#): > > I hate bitches with 2 last names…they are usually difficult bitches and I wouldnt wanna get married to one. If you do, assume your marriage will be temporary lol. I only plan on getting married once and _if the girl doesn’t recognize who her owner is then it ain’t gonna happen_ 🙂 It comes with the territory, call me old school… And with that its safe to say you will never get married… or at least get bitch slapped every married day of your life… But I’m sure you were kidding about that anyway 😉 ---
**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 6:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/23 "2006-01-24T06:25:50Z")
Be\_rad is one tough SOB ---
**Author:** ![berad](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/berad/32/5953_2.png) [@berad](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/berad)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 6:26am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/24 "2006-01-24T06:26:02Z")
> [@SVshine03](#): > > And with that its safe to say you will never get married… or at least get bitch slapped every married day of your life… > > But I’m sure you were kidding about that anyway 😉 Thanks. I’m glad some people still have a sense of humor. ---
**Author:** ![HaNnIBaL64](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/hannibal64/32/5954_2.png) [@HaNnIBaL64](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/HaNnIBaL64)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 6:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/25 "2006-01-24T06:51:28Z")
No I’m honestly not budging on this… She has a youger brother so her name is not dead. I see it as an insult to me personally and its not like my last name is god awful either. Its 6 letters. Besides i caved on the ceremony thing and said fine we’ll just runaway and get married. I will not cave on this. Guess that makes me an asshole. ---
**Author:** ![Jenn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba9def/32.png) [@Jenn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jenn)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/26 "2006-01-24T07:01:16Z")
If you are not going to get married because of a name!?!?!?! I’m sorry- I think that is an asshole thing to do. If you love her I can’t see something so stupid getting in the way of you and her happiness. Thats my .02 I’m done before I offend someone. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![SVshine03](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@SVshine03](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SVshine03)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:09am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/27 "2006-01-24T07:09:57Z")
^^^ what she said ^^^ Is your woman really being that difficult about it? Cause if there is no talking any sense into her then I don’t know what you should do… And didn’t you all talk about marriage at all over the last few years of dating… this issue never came up before now? Seems a lil odd & a kick in the ass to you ---
**Author:** ![fshowcars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fshowcars/32/5937_2.png) [@fshowcars](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fshowcars)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/28 "2006-01-24T07:11:17Z")
> [@HaNnIBaL64](#): > > No I’m honestly not budging on this… She has a youger brother so her name is not dead. I see it as an insult to me personally and its not like my last name is god awful either. Its 6 letters. Besides i caved on the ceremony thing and said fine we’ll just runaway and get married. I will not cave on this. Guess that makes me an asshole. dud.e… you know she’s just being all bitchy emo about it… i bet if you blow it off and she gets in a better mood over a couple days and it comes back up it won’t be a big deal… ? ya think? i dunno… women are tough to deal with ---
**Author:** ![rmrider897](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@rmrider897](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/rmrider897)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/29 "2006-01-24T07:12:04Z")
i would proboly talk her out of it before i would tie the knot. the kids last names would definitly be mine. ---
**Author:** ![S10Blazed\_Si](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/s10blazed_si/32/5983_2.png) [@S10Blazed\_Si](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/S10Blazed_Si)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/30 "2006-01-24T07:19:58Z")
> [@Jenn](#): > > If you are not going to get married because of a name!?!?!?! I’m sorry- I think that is an asshole thing to do. If you love her I can’t see something so stupid getting in the way of you and her happiness. I think its an asshole thing on her part not to change her name. If she loved him she wouldn’t care what her name got changed to. I’m old school I guess, but the bride should always take the husband’s last name. -P.S. Last names (usually) don’t have hyphens either. But thats just how I’d want it. ---
**Author:** ![newchic](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newchic/32/5989_2.png) [@newchic](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newchic)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/31 "2006-01-24T07:21:27Z")
> [@iroc-z89](#): > > i would take the last name of whom ever i marry and my kids would have his last name as well…but i dont really think that should be thing that stops you from getting married to someone. But if it is then there are some problems. x2 ---
**Author:** ![Jenn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba9def/32.png) [@Jenn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jenn)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/32 "2006-01-24T07:22:55Z")
However… in some countries, its the other way around… the lady gives her name to the husband… My uncle’s name is hyphenated because he kept his name and took hers… Its a name… who really cares. If you are happy you are happy- I don’t thnk you should nit-pick at something so dumb. Like I said… make a deal- tell her she can take her name as a middle name … Like instead of me being First Middle Last I’d go with First Last NewLast ---
**Author:** ![S10Blazed\_Si](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/s10blazed_si/32/5983_2.png) [@S10Blazed\_Si](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/S10Blazed_Si)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:30am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/33 "2006-01-24T07:30:21Z")
I’ll also add how my family made up for ‘losing’ a family name. My gram had 3 girls and no boys to carry on her name (Shee). They all got married and got new last names and my gram was the last one left with that name. She died a few years back and my sister used that as her son’s middle name. She also used my grandma from the other side’s maiden name for her 2nd son so that when my grandpa kicks the bucket, that name will still be around. Doesn’t quite apply to your question but if losing the family name is a concern thats one way to keep a name alive. ---
**Author:** ![SVshine03](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@SVshine03](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SVshine03)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/34 "2006-01-24T07:33:23Z")
I dont think she should be so hell bent on keepin her name though… Ifs she is rich or has made a name for herself ok but other then that… why cause a fight over it… and not to get married over it is just as retarted ---
**Author:** ![fshowcars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fshowcars/32/5937_2.png) [@fshowcars](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fshowcars)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/35 "2006-01-24T07:35:53Z")
> [@SVshine03](#): > > I dont think she should be so hell bent on keepin her name though… Ifs she is rich or has made a name for herself ok but other then that… why cause a fight over it… and not to get married over it is just as retarted please refer to my post pages back. if it doens’t get hits on google, she’s just being bitchy. ---
**Author:** ![newchic](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newchic/32/5989_2.png) [@newchic](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newchic)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/36 "2006-01-24T07:49:46Z")
marriage is about compromise… not totalitarian dictatorship… You should both be willing to give a little… She could actually take your name legally but keep her maiden name and use it for what ever she thinks she needs it for… ---
**Author:** ![Swarzkopf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@Swarzkopf](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Swarzkopf)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 7:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/37 "2006-01-24T07:56:08Z")
My wife kept her maiden name. It wasn’t an issue for me; I honestly didn’t and don’t care. She wanted to keep it so she wouldn’t have to call the college she graduated from, her credit cards, her student loan companies, go the drivers license center, ect. ect. to have her name changed. Whatever, fine with me. When we got married, we weren’t thinking about kids. She’s going to take my last name if/when we have kids, because it will lead to weird situations if she doesn’t…think of parent teacher conferences, meeting other parents, ect. ---
**Author:** ![ShalerPunk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shalerpunk/32/5976_2.png) [@ShalerPunk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ShalerPunk)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/38 "2006-01-24T08:05:29Z")
> [@LigonierA1](#): > > And yet you are gay but not married or wanting to be so? 🌑 you can do better than that 2/10 ---
**Author:** ![HaNnIBaL64](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/hannibal64/32/5954_2.png) [@HaNnIBaL64](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/HaNnIBaL64)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/39 "2006-01-24T08:23:03Z")
> [@fshowcars](#): > > please refer to my post pages back. > > if it doens’t get hits on google, she’s just being bitchy. she has a real common last name… she has this idea stuck in her head since her dad suggested it to her cause its BIG out in Cali. I dont give a fuck I’m not out in Cali. ---
**Author:** ![HaNnIBaL64](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/hannibal64/32/5954_2.png) [@HaNnIBaL64](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/HaNnIBaL64)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:26am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/40 "2006-01-24T08:26:08Z")
> [@newchic](#): > > marriage is about compromise… not totalitarian dictatorship… You should both be willing to give a little… She could actually take your name legally but keep her maiden name and use it for what ever she thinks she needs it for… Trust me I’ve geiven a lot towards our relationship. I compromise a lot as well. I wanted a traditional wedding… she doesn’t… so I said fine we’ll do it your way but we are having a party when we get back. I am not budging on the name thing though. I even suggested that her middle name become her last name now. I can deal with that. She said no go cause her moms middle name is the same… fuck it [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729.md?page=3)