# Would you get married if .... **URL:** \ **Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [January 23, 2006, 10:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729 "2006-01-23T22:16:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![2toneishot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/2toneishot/32/6010_2.png) [@2toneishot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/2toneishot)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:28am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/41 "2006-01-24T08:28:45Z")
i say who gives a shit what name she takes as long as the kids take your last name. u shouldnt be in marriage for the name. ---
**Author:** ![berad](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/berad/32/5953_2.png) [@berad](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/berad)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/42 "2006-01-24T08:36:20Z")
> [@2toneishot](#): > > i say who gives a shit what name she takes as long as the kids take your last name. u shouldnt be in marriage for the name. _relation_ship…name relation ---
**Author:** ![ShalerPunk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shalerpunk/32/5976_2.png) [@ShalerPunk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ShalerPunk)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/43 "2006-01-24T08:41:46Z")
i really wouldn’t care either way. ---
**Author:** ![2toneishot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/2toneishot/32/6010_2.png) [@2toneishot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/2toneishot)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/44 "2006-01-24T08:50:38Z")
> [@Be\_Rad](#): > > _relation_ship…name relation no relationship means nothing about name. technically us being friends means we have a freind relationship. and im sure as shit not taking your name. you dont get married to join names you get married b/c you love someone who gives a shit if they sign a check with your last name or not. the only thing id worry about is if you have kids, mainly a boy that he takes teh last name to keep it going. end of story. ---
**Author:** ![berad](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/berad/32/5953_2.png) [@berad](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/berad)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/45 "2006-01-24T08:55:27Z")
Like i said, Im old school. Change the fuckin last name or make her sign a pre-nup. Make it a trade off. ---
**Author:** ![berad](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/berad/32/5953_2.png) [@berad](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/berad)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/46 "2006-01-24T08:55:59Z")
> [@2toneishot](#): > > no relationship means nothing about name. technically us being friends means we have a freind relationship. and im sure as shit not taking your name. > > you dont get married to join names you get married b/c you love someone who gives a shit if they sign a check with your last name or not. the only thing id worry about is if you have kids, mainly a boy that he takes teh last name to keep it going. end of story. Are you saying you don’t love me!!! :love: ☹ ---
**Author:** ![2toneishot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/2toneishot/32/6010_2.png) [@2toneishot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/2toneishot)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/47 "2006-01-24T08:57:17Z")
> [@Be\_Rad](#): > > Are you saying you don’t love me!!! :love: ☹ no brad… you know your my one and only true love… ---
**Author:** ![Jeff95TAsWife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/3e96dc/32.png) [@Jeff95TAsWife](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jeff95TAsWife)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 8:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/48 "2006-01-24T08:58:39Z")
I changed my name, but my daughter (Jeff’s stepdaughter) has her dad’s last name. This really confused her friends when they were little. It does have advantages - teachers, principals, etc don’t link you to your kid when you complain. ---
**Author:** ![newchic](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newchic/32/5989_2.png) [@newchic](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newchic)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/49 "2006-01-24T09:05:57Z")
before Eurodad and I got married I told him I was going to keep my last name and he said he would rather I took his last name but it didn’t matter that much to him… I ended up taking his last name for the kids sake… Don’t get so twisted about it… it could just be a test… ---
**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/50 "2006-01-24T09:21:41Z")
> [@Be\_Rad](#): > > Like i said, Im old school. Change the fuckin last name or make her sign a pre-nup. Make it a trade off. :boink ---
**Author:** ![SVshine03](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@SVshine03](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SVshine03)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/51 "2006-01-24T09:25:43Z")
The Pre-nup talk will get you … “So you are just saying that our marriage will fail” OH yeah – I tried to have my last 2 engagements sign a pre nup and thats the emo crap i got from the GUYS… So good luck with that one ---
**Author:** ![Dominator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a4c791/32.png) [@Dominator](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dominator)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/52 "2006-01-24T09:29:33Z")
dont get married regardless. Problem solved ---
**Author:** ![ShalerPunk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shalerpunk/32/5976_2.png) [@ShalerPunk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ShalerPunk)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/53 "2006-01-24T09:35:09Z")
if i ever get married: 1. I don’t care if she takes my last name, as long as she wears the ring. 2. There WILL be a prenuptual agreement, what’s yours is yours and what’s mine is mine. 3. The kids will be raised sans religion. ---
**Author:** ![fshowcars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fshowcars/32/5937_2.png) [@fshowcars](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fshowcars)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:40am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/54 "2006-01-24T09:40:00Z")
> [@SVshine03](#): > > The Pre-nup talk will get you … “So you are just saying that our marriage will fail” OH yeah – I tried to have my last 2 engagements sign a pre nup and thats the emo crap i got from the GUYS… So good luck with that one then try to marry me… YOU will be signing MY prenup 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Jenn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba9def/32.png) [@Jenn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jenn)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:42am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/55 "2006-01-24T09:42:00Z")
pre nups are gay ---
**Author:** ![SVshine03](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@SVshine03](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SVshine03)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/56 "2006-01-24T09:43:52Z")
> [@fshowcars](#): > > then try to marry me… YOU will be signing MY prenup 🙂 Not sure Jenn would like that too much… ---
**Author:** ![Jenn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba9def/32.png) [@Jenn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jenn)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/57 "2006-01-24T09:46:13Z")
go ahead… you sign the pre nup and take his last name haha ---
**Author:** ![fshowcars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fshowcars/32/5937_2.png) [@fshowcars](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fshowcars)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/58 "2006-01-24T09:48:24Z")
fuck yeah… no hyphenated fuckin-bullshit round here!!! ---
**Author:** ![SVshine03](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@SVshine03](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SVshine03)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/59 "2006-01-24T09:49:33Z")
Naw… He would whine when he saw my pre nup LOL ---
**Author:** ![fshowcars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fshowcars/32/5937_2.png) [@fshowcars](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fshowcars)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2006, 9:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729/60 "2006-01-24T09:51:21Z")
> [@SVshine03](#): > > Naw… He would whine when he saw my pre nup LOL my pre nup pre nup’s pre numps… so i’m golden. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729.md?page=2) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-get-married-if/179729.md?page=4)