# Would you hate some1 when they die? **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [January 15, 2008, 7:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898 "2008-01-15T19:09:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/1 "2008-01-15T19:09:44Z")
this question has been on my mind lately. i say no. ---
**Author:** ![brent\_strong](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/brent_strong/32/7203_2.png) [@brent\_strong](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/brent_strong)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:14pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/2 "2008-01-15T19:14:30Z")
Hate? Probably not. Continue to have no respect for them as a person and their shitty actions? You bet. I hate people who pretend that just because someone died, they were an angel while they were alive. ---
**Author:** ![ryanmcell](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ryanmcell/32/7510_2.png) [@ryanmcell](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ryanmcell)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/3 "2008-01-15T19:15:22Z")
Hate is a big word. Strong dislike, yes. ---
**Author:** ![Mrs\_Karus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mrs_karus/32/7426_2.png) [@Mrs\_Karus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mrs_Karus)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/4 "2008-01-15T19:16:06Z")
it is stupid to “hate” someone, some people just do dumb things - but that is their own problem. life your own life and laugh at other people 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/5 "2008-01-15T19:16:26Z")
> [@brent\_strong](#): > > Hate? Probably not. Continue to have no respect for them as a person and their shitty actions? You bet. I hate people who pretend that just because someone died, they were an angel while they were alive. understood, hate is different then respect. ---
**Author:** ![OfficerK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/4da419/32.png) [@OfficerK](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OfficerK)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:18pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/6 "2008-01-15T19:18:57Z")
there is only one person in my life that I can truly say I hate, but I know I will continue to hate that person even when they die. ---
**Author:** ![ubengineering](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ubengineering/32/5171_2.png) [@ubengineering](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ubengineering)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/7 "2008-01-15T19:25:49Z")
havnt found ne one like that yet to make me feel that way, maybe one day ---
**Author:** ![mindless](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mindless/32/7286_2.png) [@mindless](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/mindless)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/8 "2008-01-15T19:27:13Z")
> [@brent\_strong](#): > > I hate people who pretend that just because someone died, they were an angel while they were alive. x127 ---
**Author:** ![JayS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jays/32/15375_2.png) [@JayS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JayS)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:37pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/9 "2008-01-15T19:37:26Z")
I guess the real question is if someone has wronged you enough for you to hate them, why should their death change your feelings? ---
**Author:** ![Silver](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/silver/32/4953_2.png) [@Silver](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Silver)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/10 "2008-01-15T19:38:34Z")
I strongly dislike a few people. I have only ever hated one person, and it was for reasons that go beyond something stupid like “She took my boyfriend” or “He lied about me.” I do believe there are genuine reasons to fully hate someone, but also believe that far too many people use the term lightly. When this person passed away unexpectedly I had the hardest time because I didn’t know if I should drop that hate and be sad that they were gone, or if I still had a right to hate them. After several years I’ve finally decided that I’m am allowed to feel the way I do about this person, and I am not sad that they are gone. This person made my life a living hell for a number of years, and I shouldn’t be regretful that now **I** can move on from it. So yes, I think you are still allowed to hate someone after they die. However, I don’t think you should dwell on that hate, else they are doing as much damage to you now as they did before they passed on. ---
**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/11 "2008-01-15T19:44:31Z")
> [@JayS](#): > > I guess the real question is if someone has wronged you enough for you to hate them, why should their death change your feelings? no, sorry, that is not my question. my question is would you hate some1 when they die? ---
**Author:** ![turbo\_ls1\_ss](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbo_ls1_ss/32/7303_2.png) [@turbo\_ls1\_ss](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/turbo_ls1_ss)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/12 "2008-01-15T19:47:42Z")
i hated saddam after he died 😉 ---
**Author:** ![mindless](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mindless/32/7286_2.png) [@mindless](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/mindless)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:50pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/13 "2008-01-15T19:50:04Z")
So wait do you mean to start hating them after they died or if you had already hated them and then they died. Like say you found out something about that person after they died and you started to hate them for it. ---
**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/14 "2008-01-15T19:53:51Z")
> [@mindless](#): > > So wait do you mean to start hating them after they died or if you had already hated them and then they died. Like say you found out something about that person after they died and you started to hate them for it. has long has you hate them. does hate matter living or dead? i wouldnt pass hate to a person that is dead. ---
**Author:** ![cky89](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cky89/32/4945_2.png) [@cky89](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cky89)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 7:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/15 "2008-01-15T19:56:02Z")
> [@mindless](#): > > x127 +128. ---
**Author:** ![97\_B18b1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/cdc98d/32.png) [@97\_B18b1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/97_B18b1)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 8:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/16 "2008-01-15T20:00:18Z")
hate takes up way too much energy and way too much time. If someone does something to you and you “hate” them for it, then they have already won. I have too much shit to worry about to go around hateing people. ---
**Author:** ![98SS10](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/98ss10/32/7288_2.png) [@98SS10](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/98SS10)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 8:22pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/17 "2008-01-15T20:22:54Z")
I wouldnt wish death upon my worse enemy, thats just a shit thing to do to anyone. WHen theyre dead thats it, were even. ---
**Author:** ![mindless](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mindless/32/7286_2.png) [@mindless](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/mindless)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 9:05pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/18 "2008-01-15T21:05:30Z")
I really wouldnt wish death on anyone but i could see hating someone after they died. I mean crazy things happen like lets say your friend raped your mom then killed him self and your mom kept quiet about but after time you found out i would deff hate some one after there dead. p.s. ive been in a shitty mood lately so i may sound like a wierdo with some shit i say lol ---
**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 4:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/19 "2008-01-16T04:55:25Z")
yes, i would hate 33.33% no, i would not hate 33.33% dont care but i want to vote and have no impact 33.33% this pretty even, thanks for the information. ---
**Author:** ![Bigairskier1580](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bigairskier1580/32/7612_2.png) [@Bigairskier1580](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bigairskier1580)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 5:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/20 "2008-01-16T05:31:17Z")
Hate for a person would not disappear simply because they did. It just doesn’t matter anymore as they are gone. [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898.md?page=2)