# Would you hate some1 when they die?

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898>\
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [January 15, 2008, 7:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898 "2008-01-15T19:09:44Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 19\
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**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 5:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/21 "2008-01-16T05:35:33Z")

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If you stop hating someone after they died…then obviously you didn’t have a good reason to hate them…

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**Author:** ![Nikuk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nikuk/32/7254_2.png) [@Nikuk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nikuk)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 5:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/22 "2008-01-16T05:37:36Z")

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I don’t hate very many people, I take the term quite strongly.

if I hated them while they were alive, their death hasn’t changed the fact of whatever I felt wronged about.

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**Author:** ![Nikuk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nikuk/32/7254_2.png) [@Nikuk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nikuk)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 5:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/23 "2008-01-16T05:37:57Z")

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You’re poll is too general, captain.

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**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 5:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/24 "2008-01-16T05:48:07Z")

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> [@Nikuk](#):
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> You’re poll is too general, captain.

hate is to general. i asked the wife about this, over my rice cake and she said- that she wouldnt hate. i think this is the 1st thing we agreed on…

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**Author:** ![Nikuk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nikuk/32/7254_2.png) [@Nikuk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nikuk)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 5:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/25 "2008-01-16T05:51:25Z")

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> [@Anonymity](#):
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> hate is to general. i asked the wife about this, over my rice cake and she said- that she wouldnt hate.

right, there fore your pole is too general.

> i think this is the 1st thing we agreed on…  
> …and Matt’s sex appeal.

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**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 5:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/26 "2008-01-16T05:52:58Z")

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99% of the time, no. Death has a way of putting things in perspective and 99% of the time the reason for disliking someone becomes petty bullshit when viewed with regard to the grand scheme of things.

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**Author:** ![Nikuk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nikuk/32/7254_2.png) [@Nikuk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nikuk)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 5:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/27 "2008-01-16T05:58:12Z")

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> [@Fry](#):
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> 99% of the time, no. Death has a way of putting things in perspective and 99% of the time the reason for disliking someone becomes petty bullshit when viewed with regard to the grand scheme of things.

see, I feel it depends on the severity of the emotion.

I reserve “hate” for the all out situation where you consider the person a raw waste of flesh, and could really care less about their outcome.

I only hate two people in my life. If either person were to die, I wouldn’t be concerned for them, nor their families as they are a burden to the families as well.  
Now, I wouldn’t wish these people to be tortured, or suffer through immense cancer for a decade or anything, but I wouldn’t mind it.

At the same time, I don’t dwell on these things. I quite honestly hadn’t thought of them in months to years… only when I see their aftermath, or when an internet poal comes up.

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**Author:** ![Devioustsi](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/devioustsi/32/7406_2.png) [@Devioustsi](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Devioustsi)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 8:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/28 "2008-01-16T08:45:18Z")

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I wouldn’t hate because it can consume you and bring you to the dark side.

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**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 10:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/29 "2008-01-16T10:19:51Z")

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thanks every1, i need more input.

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**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 10:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/30 "2008-01-16T10:50:06Z")

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> [@Nikuk](#):
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> see, I feel it depends on the severity of the emotion.

I guess I agree with that. Besides I’m only speculating because I’ve never actually hated anyone.

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 10:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/31 "2008-01-16T10:55:01Z")

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I see no reason to hate anyone, ever.

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**Author:** ![Shrives](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shrives/32/7250_2.png) [@Shrives](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shrives)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 1:22pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/32 "2008-01-16T13:22:52Z")

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> [@newman](#):
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> I see no reason to hate anyone, ever.

x2

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 1:24pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/33 "2008-01-16T13:24:19Z")

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I don’t care if someone killed your whole family. Why let them destroy your life with hate. What good can come of it.

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**Author:** ![Scott](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/scott/32/7603_2.png) [@Scott](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Scott)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 1:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/34 "2008-01-16T13:27:25Z")

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well apparently you’re letting nerds ruin your life

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**Author:** ![GhettoDaxx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e8c25b/32.png) [@GhettoDaxx](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/GhettoDaxx)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 1:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/35 "2008-01-16T13:28:23Z")

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No.  
Unless its LDiablo233

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 1:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/36 "2008-01-16T13:28:23Z")

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LOL. :tup:

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**Author:** ![theblue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/theblue/32/5074_2.png) [@theblue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/theblue)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 1:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/37 "2008-01-16T13:31:59Z")

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a solid yes. but it would take a lot to get me to really hate somebody.

if somebody raped my mom and died randomly the next day I’d probably wish they’d lived so they could be put through more pain.

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**Author:** ![ly555is](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3bc359/32.png) [@ly555is](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ly555is)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 1:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/38 "2008-01-16T13:43:12Z")

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> [@Mrs. Karus](#):
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> it is stupid to “hate” someone, some people just do dumb things - but that is their own problem. life your own life and laugh at other people 🙂

:tup:

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**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2008, 1:49pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/would-you-hate-some1-when-they-die/41898/39 "2008-01-16T13:49:11Z")

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wow, this is neck and neck. i am glad it isnt a blow out of hate.

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