# You know you're comfortable with your sexuality when.... **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [March 3, 2008, 3:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361 "2008-03-03T15:21:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Minglor](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/minglor/32/7373_2.png) [@Minglor](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Minglor)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 5:32pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/21 "2008-03-03T17:32:14Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > There’s a fine line between comfortably straight, and gay. You’re toeing that line. > > 😛 Wasn’t that you next to me singing dancing queen?? :gay: ---
**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 5:34pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/22 "2008-03-03T17:34:26Z")
When you hang out with brendansi… ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 5:37pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/23 "2008-03-03T17:37:04Z")
> [@Minglor](#): > > Wasn’t that you next to me singing dancing queen?? You fag. (It was knowing me, knowing you.) ---
**Author:** ![camarojoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c67d28/32.png) [@camarojoe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/camarojoe)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 5:37pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/24 "2008-03-03T17:37:25Z")
> [@Minglor](#): > > Drive a miata. With no shirt on. With another dude riding shotgun. Listening to ABBA’s greatest hits. You won it at… Drive a Miata 🙂 (You can substitute Miata with yellow BMW) :hay:Skunk ---
**Author:** ![Justin](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/justin/32/7459_2.png) [@Justin](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Justin)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 5:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/25 "2008-03-03T17:41:16Z")
> [@forthekicks385](#): > > fuck the bed i’ll take the floor I’ve been in that situation, I took the bed. ---
**Author:** ![camarojoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c67d28/32.png) [@camarojoe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/camarojoe)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 5:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/26 "2008-03-03T17:44:37Z")
> [@The\_Russian](#): > > You can sleep in a bed with another man becaues its far better than sleeping on the floor. But is it ok if you have a full pillow between the two of you on a queen? We weren’t even going to think of sleeping on the floor in the ghetto of Detroit. ---
**Author:** ![AfXtc777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a9adbd/32.png) [@AfXtc777](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/AfXtc777)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 5:46pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/27 "2008-03-03T17:46:37Z")
I really don’t “feel”, “think” i’m gay by doing any of the shit mentioned. I know i’m straight and have never doubted that. So to me someone that tries to justify why they shouldn’t “feel gay” constitutes gay tendencies in my mind. once again, you know how I know your gay… FYI I’ll be the first to admit, i’ve slept in the same bed with one of my best friends and never thought twice about it. I’ve hungout with my gay friends and never once thought about how it might appear to anyone else. I think it’s just about being comfortable with who you are, not about what you are. I’ve even had gay guys hit on me before, laughed about it and still never justified being straight to myself. and the words you know how I know your gay come out of my mouth at least 10x a day … ---
**Author:** ![The\_Russian](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/the_russian/32/7414_2.png) [@The\_Russian](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/The_Russian)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 5:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/28 "2008-03-03T17:59:34Z")
> [@camarojoe](#): > > But is it ok if you have a full pillow between the two of you on a queen? > > We weren’t even going to think of sleeping on the floor in the ghetto of Detroit. Man pillows in between last for all of about 30 mins if either of you move. then they just get ejected. My biggest problem was the other guy kept stealing the covers. and I got cold. Hotel floors are the worst, they are fucking concrete. Besides we were on either side of the bed, its not like we were :hitit::sario:or cuddling. so :gotme: ---
**Author:** ![RedGoober4Life](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/redgoober4life/32/7610_2.png) [@RedGoober4Life](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RedGoober4Life)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 6:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/29 "2008-03-03T18:00:17Z")
> [@AfXtc777](#): > > I really don’t “feel”, “think” i’m gay by doing any of the shit mentioned. I know i’m straight and have never doubted that. > > So to me someone that tries to justify why they shouldn’t “feel gay” constitutes gay tendencies in my mind. > > once again, you know how I know your gay… > FYI I’ll be the first to admit, i’ve slept in the same bed with one of my best friends and never thought twice about it. I’ve hungout with my gay friends and never once thought about how it might appear to anyone else. > I think it’s just about being comfortable with who you are, not about what you are. > > I’ve even had gay guys hit on me before, laughed about it and still never justified being straight to myself. > > and the words you know how I know your gay come out of my mouth at least 10x a day … This isn’t one of those threads, Virginia. ---
**Author:** ![Jam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jam/32/7235_2.png) [@Jam](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jam)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 6:34pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/30 "2008-03-03T18:34:54Z")
eviljay and i shared my bed within a few weeks of knowing each other… he passed out in it cause he was hammed and i just crawled right in next to him. we woke up cuddling once at a certain bar on allen a gay dude was hitting on me. at first i though he was just being nice by buying me drinks, but then when he started touching me and rubbing my arm and shit i realized he wanted to bone me. so i played along and let him buy me a few more drinks before i left i really enjoyed the show 6 feet under i drive a car with pink polka dots on the roof i grab/dry hump dude ass all day at work cause its funny i say extremely gay shit all day my best friend has been known to stroke my hair/beard when were drunk ive kissed a bunch of dudes on the mouth, even a few board members im sure i can think of more but i wont bore you with the details. oh, and i have been dating a very pretty girl since july and were madly in love. do i win at the super gay but not really contest? ---
**Author:** ![Treads4Heads](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/treads4heads/32/7416_2.png) [@Treads4Heads](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Treads4Heads)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 6:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/31 "2008-03-03T18:47:39Z")
pics or ban ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 6:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/32 "2008-03-03T18:53:43Z")
^^ you know how I know you’re gay? lol ---
**Author:** ![Treads4Heads](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/treads4heads/32/7416_2.png) [@Treads4Heads](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Treads4Heads)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 6:55pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/33 "2008-03-03T18:55:51Z")
of girlfriend to prove anti-gayness. nudes or ban of him to test the rest of this forum ---
**Author:** ![psphinx81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@psphinx81](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psphinx81)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 6:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/34 "2008-03-03T18:56:25Z")
i had to sleep with skunk in toronto, now that was weird! 🤣 ---
**Author:** ![ILCisDEAD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a87d85/32.png) [@ILCisDEAD](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ILCisDEAD)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 6:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/35 "2008-03-03T18:59:47Z")
watch gay porn with the GF because she said she would do anal. Or tell all your friends you love them on the phone. ---
**Author:** ![Jam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jam/32/7235_2.png) [@Jam](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jam)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 7:01pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/36 "2008-03-03T19:01:54Z")
> [@Treads4Heads](#): > > of girlfriend to prove anti-gayness. > > nudes or ban of him to test the rest of this forum nah son not whoring out my gf on the interwebs but im sure some board members can vouch :tup: ---
**Author:** ![Shrives](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shrives/32/7250_2.png) [@Shrives](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shrives)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 7:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/37 "2008-03-03T19:09:15Z")
Jam’s girl is very cute :tup: And incredibly cool, which is rare for gf’s to be cool in our circle of friends… ---
**Author:** ![Shrives](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shrives/32/7250_2.png) [@Shrives](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shrives)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 7:11pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/38 "2008-03-03T19:11:15Z")
And as far as the gay thing… Well, not only is it a Volkswagen, is a cabriolet volkswagen… I think JJ with his beetle can only outgay this guy right here :wiggle: ---
**Author:** ![FightinMike](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/7bcc69/32.png) [@FightinMike](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/FightinMike)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 7:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/39 "2008-03-03T19:28:41Z")
> [@ILCisDEAD](#): > > watch gay porn with the GF because she said she would do anal. > > Or tell all your friends you love them on the phone. Watched Che-Che Guevara’s Hot Shots…Because someone left it in the dvd player my girl bought from BB. ---
**Author:** ![Minglor](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/minglor/32/7373_2.png) [@Minglor](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Minglor)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 7:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361/40 "2008-03-03T19:53:57Z")
> [@Jam](#): > > nah son not whoring out my gf on the interwebs > > but im sure some board members can vouch :tup: Vouched. \<3 [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/you-know-youre-comfortable-with-your-sexuality-when/44361.md?page=3)