:crackup :crackup
Wow really. Maybe someone should talk to my boyfriend. I do so much more than buy his beer… where is my public praise to the world? :confused
you know all you guys making fun of him for even saying anything, you guys are dicks. Because there are girls out there ( ie ME!) who bends over backwards for my boyfriend, go above and beyond stressing out my self and cutting my self short so he doens’t have to worry about a thing and i get a “thanks” … so maybe think about that guys. maybe give your girls a little hug and a think you occationally will be a good idea. Or, if you don’t have a girl to thank, maybe it might make sence why… :stfu
This is all falling on deaf ears. Trust me. I didn’t even try on this thread. :lol
amen sister!! hah, but yea i figure with the mostly male population on this forum they might have appreciated that info but just b/c she bought me my fav beer, thats not what makes her awesome…its everything else she does and even the littlest things matter to me and thats why im with her…some guys just dont know how to appreciate what they have
oh and thanks for backing me up 
My girlfriend Carol just broke up with me :sad
:rofl
I think what you said is really nice, but I can’t back you up for a few reasons…
- I’m everyone’s favorite punching bag already.
- My boyfriend is on this forum and he hasn’t made a post like that.
- We’ve been together over a year, I’m nothing special to him when I do stuff like that anymore.
Out friend kinda summed it up: girlfriends are like cars, at first when you get them and they’re brand new you’re scared and hesitant and you love them just the way they are, then once you start to get more comfortable you start noticing things you want to change and modify, and after a while you start thinking about trading them in for a new one.
well thats an interesting comparison you’ve got there, i guess im just a weird guy b/c i love it when she does little shit like that and i dont think i’ll ever get over it…i am very analytical and notice the small things a lot and they mean more to me
she wont have to blind step it any further , im here to pick her up in the…
Instead of whining that your BF isn’t praising you on a car forum full of random guys that he doesn’t know (cuz that sounds cool :confused) why don’t you lead by example and praise him a little (I need more material to chuckle at).
everyone in a relationship cuts themselves short at times and makes sacrifices… thats part of being in a relationship. So if you actually want praise for doing things you are suppose to do then you are a selfish attention whore. Who actually says they want praise? Seriously! “Look at what I did, give me props to feed my massive ego! NOW!”
I’d rather be a dick than a pansy.
its actually more like 60, but thats beside the point.
im not in a particularly good mood today because of something that occured last night. it reminded me once again why i hate chasing skirt. it was quite simple. i heard something from a few people that i dont doubt and know is true and when i asked a girl about it, she basically denied it. i didnt mention my “sources” to her or anything, i didnt even confront her about it. i just let it go and went to bed. killed my mood for the night and for today. im thinking that at this point i just dont give a shit anymore.
ever heard of venting? you cant say that there havent been times where you’ve busted your ass to do something and havent gotten any recognition for it dude…its not that she’s “whining” to anyone, it just sucks when you feel like you’re doing everything you can to either make someone happy or get something done by a deadline (work, school shit, etc.) and then you dont even get a “thanks” or a “good job”…its called positive reinforcement and it helps to shape a person and improve their attitude towards life. theres nothing pansy about it, if anything, you are being a mature adult and understanding that by positively reinforcing one’s behavior, it can make things better for you too, not just the person you congratulate. thats why very few relationships make it these days because most guys would “rather be a dick than a pansy”
/rant
you obviously haven’t been in many relationships and have a skewed vision on reality. Notice how you and the only two girls on the forums think this positive ranting about your new gf on a CAR FORUM is good. It’s lame and pointless. You want to praise your girl then do it to her, not here. You are bragging about your new gf… this isn’t grade school, sorry. I’m glad you are happy, but c’mon dude.
if being a dick means not giving my gf praise and posting pics of her in a bikini to a bunch of random dudes then YES, I’ll be a dick and my gf will love me more for that. Does your spectacular gf know about this thread? if so, does she approve?
I told my gf about this thread when it first happened and she laughed. Some people will think it’s great, but I’d those will be in the minority. IMO of course.
i know what thats like, but i was part of a large organization where everyone does that, so getting sole recognition for things was difficult… but if youre in a relationship and your girlfriend or boyfriend cant say something good about you, or praise you for something youve recently accomplished, or performed that was out of the ordinary, you must not be doing a whole lot.
we should be happy for Meena, hes got himself a gf. let him brag for a bit, its not that big a deal.
If you want to vent about your boyfriend or girlfriend, good or bad, there are counselor’s you can see for that.
some people call them life coaches
ok, yes this is a car forum, but this is the offtopic section…you still go on the forum not jsut because its about cars, but you’ve developed buddies on the forum that you talk to…i’ve had my share of relationships and i chose to end those based on the type of person she was. also since its allegedly just me and the 2 girls who think positive ranting about my gf is good, who says that a bad thing? its one more thing that i understand that women like which will make my relationship more successful. and the bikini pic was only posted because yes, this is a car forum, just like any other, full of guys who get their jollies off by seeing girls in swimsuits or naked. she knows about this thread and she thought it was cute and thoughtful and was flattered that i wanted to brag about her to my friends on a car forum. besides, she wouldnt wear a bikini if she didnt want ppl to see her…
and why does it bother you so much that i have something nice that i want to brag about? i dont even know you dude lol. its just like if you ran a 10.2 at the track and posted it up here…you have something nice, you feel like sharing it with everyone, they congratulate you on it…its simple. if you think its childish that i made this thread, w/e you are entitled to your own opinions, but if it bothers you so much, why are you still even looking at this thread?
anyways, i got shit i gotta do to get ready for virginia beach this week
/rant part 2
thanks Vadim…
you suck at quoting
bragging about stupid little relationship shit on a car forum full of people that you don’t know is lame, fight it all you want. go back to the beginning of the thread and see the responses. You may like it, she may like it, but seems like most of us think it’s dumb. I’m not telling you to stop, I’m just telling you it’s lame. I understand we all do things differently. Do you go out with your boys and talk about what a great girl you have and how well she kisses and what not? You may, but I’ve never seen a guy do that, especially to a bunch of random guys they don’t know. I’m not coming out and saying you are wrong and I’m right, but that its just something that strikes me as extremely odd. If you don’t care and think it’s cool then why do you keep responding to me?
your logic sucks…r you serious? So you think any girl that wears a bikini wouldn’t mind a pic of her posted on the internet in said bikini cause she obviously wants everyone to see her or else she would never have worn it in the first place? HAHAHAHA
your comparisons suck… Saying you ran a 10.2 is cool… saying you got a new gf and are really happy with her is cool too. All the little details get to be too much. Making a post about how she already bought your favorite beer and how great she is cause of that… umm ok. Announcing your first kiss and how great it was… what?! I just don’t get it. It seems like middle school all over again.
your questions suck… the thread was pretty much dead, someone bumped it with someone every more bizarre then your first post so I responded and you keep asking me questions… why the hell do you think I keep responding? If you didn’t feel the need to keep engaging me and asking me questions then I wouldn’t keep coming back. Not rocket science here.
I’m happy that you are happy, don’t get me wrong though.