somebody got a lump of coal! it looks to me that most of these people spent time with the family and in the process they followed a traditon that dates back a few years, that in celebration of christmas people give and receive gifts. maybe the disgust is with yor self for having anger issues or the fact that you are trying to make up lost time cause you realized that it could end anyday, or maybe i am doing exactly what you are doing and passing judgment that i have no right to do… merry christmas and happy new year