been in a few fights. I never made contact first, but usually am the first to throw a punch.
for example, words got thrown around and a kid spat in my face. I followed through with a punch and it was over.
another time a 40 somthing year old guy was yelling at me and I wanted to part so i walked away, he pushed me from behind then again into a wall. i followed suit with one punch right in his temple. end of that.
I don’t see my self as strong or big and by no means a fighter, I hate fights but if I need to defend my self I usually go for what ever will win, like a nice placed punch to nose/eye socket/temple.
and then I get out of there.