sorry to hear Darkstar. hope you guys can at least remain friends. my gf of four years and i broke up like a month and a half ago and we randomly saw each other at the mall one morning and both admitted to each other that being apart wasn’t what was best for us. good luck though man, but drinking isn’t the best answer. (sorry to bore everyone)
I’m going threw the same shit…2 yrs down the drain, it sucks. but the only thing i can say is that if you KNOW that you wanna be with this girl without a doubt then do whatever it takes to get her back, but if you have a doubt wait it out maybe someday you won’t, but by then you probably woulda forgot about this girl and have a better one…if she dont wanna be with you and you try to get with her you can’t make someone love you and you’ll only be hurtin yourself longer…just advice people give me gotta have support and ALOT of alcohol and you’ll get threw it
just keep busy and do things to take your mind off of her and all the good times. the memories is what will get to you. stay busy and keep your head up at work. use this time to find yourself and who you became when you were in a relationship. youll see things more clearer when your single. it will take a while but it will make your outlook alot better for the future
sellout
hey mike… if you recall i went through this shit last year around mothers day… 6yrs down the tube… and the thing that made me realize i was better then that was when i came down to oc for one week of pure pussy… [im sure you remember pics/] then i came home a new man… grew some balls and went back out in this world not dreading the x old lady… then i found this chic thats awsome… and we are like a team!
PERFECT EXAMPLE of dumb girls thinking there doing whats right… well guess what!!
my x g/f got engadged… SHE THOUGHT FOR SURE SHE WAS HAPPY… … guess what…
last month she broke it off because that guy just wasnt me… she TRIED to come back to me but it was 2late… i love another girl… and ieveryday i see he she tells me that AMANDA has everything she always wanted…
WOMEN are just young and DUMB… untill the hit that one point where they grow up…
BITCHES AIN’T SHIT BUT HOES AND TRICKS…
… well untill they grow up…
haha great motivation
Treat yourself to a good hooker…go Top Shelf !!!
see herein lies the problem. she has changed so much since we’ve first met. She had never had a real job before, never had any real world stress. And after a while all this stress made it so that she couldnt keep a lid on her depression. So her patience for me started to wear thin. And then after a while my patience started to wear thin with her (dating someone on a deep depression for 2 years will do that, no matter how good of a boyfriend you are). I really think things would be fine if she would get some help with her depression, but she has herself convinced that she will turn into a “lithium barbie doll” if she goes on anti-depressants.
So if she would get help and become the loving happy girl I fell in love with, then I without a doubt want to be with her. But if its more of the same stuff thats been happening over the last few months, then I dont know If I can handle that. So right now we’ve agreed (at her behest though) that we make better friends than we do a couple. We’re gonna spend a little time apart, which we’ve NEVER had in the last 2.5 years. We first got together because of a mutual friends b-day party, spent the weekend together, and at the end of the weekend she pretty much just moved into my dorm room and we’ve been living together ever since. so who knows what a little bit of space might do for us. It might be exactly what we need. :dunno:
Either way every day Im feeling a lot better about it. we both still want to be really close friends, and for the last few months thats all we’ve really been anyways. I really dont plan on looking for another relationship for a good long while though.
Thanks for all the good replies. Good to see that I’m not the only one thats going through this crap. And as usual, PewterSS may continue to lick the shit off my taint.
Am I the only one who thinks having an ex for a friend if fucking stupid?
I’l glad you are feeling better darkstar, it’s a shitty thing to lose a relationship after a few years. everything always has a way of working out though.
Glad to hear things are turning better man. Someday we must go pimp hoes together :bigok:
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In my experience staying friends with ex’s doesn’t last long. In your case it could be different.
My last ex I still talk to and its been a while. Just to show how people change, she was a good church going girl, now spends the entire day :shaggy: and bangs everything in site…o ya, and is bi. definit change.
IBNOBIPICTURESFORJ00!!
wow are we dating the same girl??? sounds exactly what i am goin threw i told her that theres no way i will go out with her unless she atleast talks to someone about her problems soo we don’t fight soo damn much…you still talk to her everyday(just like me) cause your used to her…personally i think it would be better if you get over lovin her B4 you become friends again, give yourself time to relize if you want this relationship to work because i am telling you that your only makin yourself hurt longer your holding on to nothing,BUT just because I am saying this I am still doing the same thing you are ITS HARD. 1 day at a time tho…
eh you can’t please em all…
YES :boink
Can not ever have enough booty…