eh not always true, in my own opinion having a kid doesnt cost that much, they are like pets kinda, they are small so they dont eat that much…I dunno I didnt think it was all that bad, and another plus is income taxes, at the end of the yr with having a kid I get anywheres from 3500-5000 back, so theres money to do up my car 
I just have to wait until January every year:rofl