I cant say how many times I was wasted at Michaels /Sadies/Etc where the urinal/stall was full, and I had to share the sink with like 1-2 other dudes at the same time (all careful to limit stream/splash).
No one felt weird. We all had dicks, we all were out to get them sucked… and we often did. No guy that only likes pussy is afraid that another mans dick was in eyesight, or that yours was. (okay, this sink sharing applys only when drunken… not, say, in an airport)
I dont understand.
On the otherhand, there is definately bathroom CODE as FRC says. I observe that strongly…no reason to be any closer than forced to be. And if a guy went to piss in a urinal next to me, when other options are open… I’d be like Tom Greene and call him out on the violation.