while I agree that these people are on shaky ground at the least in these situations, you cannot compare a “14 year old” girl inviting some older guy over to their house for the sole purpose of fucking them to some pedo that grabs up kids from the schoolyard in his boxvan.
No matter what the current society designates as it’s norms, it’s biologically natural for a man to be attracted to a post-pubescent female.
keep in mind that 150 years ago in these United States and still to this day in many parts of the world it’s perfectly acceptable, even normal for a 14 year old girl to be married and already have kids to a man that would be deemed rape here in the USA in 2007.
not to say there isn’t something extremely distasteful for a 50 year old father of 4 to show up with a bottle of booze and a pack of rubbers expecting to get up on some underage snootch, but I also don’t believe that these people deserve to have their entire lives ruined in the way that they are in the name of ratings.