My woman sounds a lot like yours: A great girl who, ahem, appreciates the finer things…
She loves just about anything from this high end cosmetic place: http://www.sephora.com Although then again, if it’s not something she specifically asked for any type of cleansing/grooming products could be taken as a biiiiiiiiiig insult. Better not risk it unless you’re sure.
Ask her mother about the IPOD if you can. That loaded with her favorite songs as per the above list would be good. What kind of price range are we talking? $100 tops? $50 at most?