The night crew isn’t retarded, just a bunch of idiots. I’m all for helping someone overcome the obstacles that are deterring them, but if the individuals aren’t willing to change, well there is only so little you can do.
You can only offer someone help for so long before you are just enabling them… Just as you can only learn some of life’s lessons the hard way.
I’m sure the guys that have posted about their dysfunctional relationships have learned that in order to represent the Y chromosome, you can’t be a metro sissy. Down the road, they will take that experience and help someone else come to the same realization through the same humiliation they once endured.
:shrug: