i guess it all depends on what perspective you have. outside influence can effect alot…but imo time is the best thing i have it should be for everyone but it gets hidden…just think without time would any of this be possible? everything takes time, use it wisely and do what makes you happy.
also think about this…“you like to help other people” do you help to make yourself fell good? or do you help to help other person? hard question because you feel good helping. i guess its a win/win but the main reasn is your helping other people to help yourself.; so i guess all life is selfish?