i hear exactly what you are saying and i can respect that point of view. however, when im bashed… ill just fire back. its like taking a punch to me man… im not going to stand there and let someone continue to hit me over and over without firing back. eventually enough poking and prodding is going to illicit a retort. whether it be verbal, physical or whatever. im seriously sick of it. like i said i understand your logic and it does make sense to me but put yourself directly into my shoes. deal with the CONSTANT barrage of insults, put downs, etc and say you wouldnt get fed up and want to rip someones throat out after so much BS.