Looking for a good DSLR

Have an external flash, had the 50mm 1.4 (RIP). I realize the lens used is one of the most important things. My problems with the camera:

  • The D series just feel better in my hand (insert joke…). The XTi feels kinda cheap.
  • My laptop has a built-in SD reader but the XTi takes CF
  • The button to pop out the CF card broke… :Idiots
  • I’d like something with higher continuous fps

Video would hurt either I guess