I never said it was hard. I said I don’t care what strangers that I’ll likely never see again think of me. If I run into someone I know, well they already know me, and know that I’m not some trashy college kid.
If you saw me in my PJs in the store and thought to your self “what a hobo”, good for you, because you, the total stranger, have no influence in my life and who I am.
Don’t get me wrong, if I’m going out to spend more than a minute and 30 seconds in a store I shower and put on something presentable.