Holy crap that’s insane, but if it’s what both of you really want then there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. Congrats to both of you!
When my wife and I got married we both wanted and agreed apon having a nice but simple wedding. We had our wedding outdoors at the Yado gardens in Sratoga(absolute beautiful day) and had the reception at a local itialian restaurant that catered to wedding parties. Still had some ~120 people attend and with everything paid for in cash we were out the door for under $1500(price of rings and honeymoon not included there) and that included a $200 donation to the gardens. Extremely cheap, but again what we wanted and were looking for with our wedding. I know people that have spent close to 100K on theirs, but again it’s what they wanted so one can’t look down upon it when all is considered.
Best wishes to both of you!
-Adam Hennessy