I think your typical, mixed variety clubs are ghey because of the drama but when you are talking about a specific vehicle club, I am going to disagree with you.
When I had my VR4, I joined 3SNY which is a 3000GT/Stealth club in NY. A lot of great guys with some serious cars. Our meets were always very eventful and I looked forward to them.
If there were some Corvette clubs around here where the average member age wasn’t 70 and the meeting didn’t involve sitting around a table drinking coffee and taking daily meds i’d prob be down for it.