where women were the scum of the earth? i was looking for it cause i didnt want to start a new post…Ive been talking to this guy for a few weeks now, and hes been turning total asshole on me. For example today I was at work, and left for lunch early because I had to go to the bank and the post office and do a bunch of shit. So i guess he was sending me messages and since i wasnt responding, i get like a 6th message that says “ok i guess were not talking anymore, where the fuck are you”
to make a long story short, i had a bad day at work and didnt feel like putting up with his bullshit, so i told him straight up…i had a bad day, i will call you later. he proceeds to call me while i was in paying for gas, i come back out to a message askign why the fuck im not answering my phone, i must be with tyrone??? (he seems to think i like black dudes when im the biggest redneck, rap hating person there is)
so then tonight im not feeling good, i take a vicodin and am getting ready for bed. he gets online, i say sorry, im going to bed, im tired…here is the response i get…
me: but im goin to bed now
me: i took that and a vicodin about an hr ago and im about to fall asleep
the ass: whatever then bye
so i go invisible (yahoo messenger) and I get this 5 minutes later
him: well, nice of u to have gotten a better attitude since u’ve been home all nite…guess that was a fantasy of mine! u just amaze me…i told u what time i was going to be on and u decide to take a pill that will fuck u up and make u tired an hour before we are going to talk…let alone …u’ve been bitchy all day and not nice…thinking that by u being home and relaxing for a few hours would be better for our conversation tonight…guess fuckin not…so have a good nite sleep and have fuckin fun tomorrow at work…guess when i hear from u i’ll hear from u …just hope it’s not the bitch part!!!
is it just me or is this meathead on crack? no wonder he spends every day in the gym…hes a fuckin woman beater. dude looks like arnold s. on a triple dose of steroids.
Sorry for the long post…i know most of you are looking for cliffs but i cant tell a story without it being long. lol
I’m goin to fuckin bed…thought by leaving u alone for a few hours and u would possibly be in a better mood…guess not! ur just as fuckin miserable as u were earlier…but now u are all fucked up on ur pill…WHICH…u knew we were going to talk tonight around this time so u convienently took it an hour before we were goin to talk so u can go to bed…well, even though i was looking forward to talking to u…guess it’s better that the BITCH is in bed…i don’t like the bitch part of u…i like the tara that i met at the restaurant…not the crabby ass bitch…
So, have a great fuckin sleep and enjoy ur day tomorrow…hopefully u’ll be in a better mood…I CAN ONLY PRAY!!! BUT it doesn’t matter anyways coz, ur not going to be around me till sat…so i get to be by myself tomorrow nite…great! just want i always wanted!!! NOT!!! whatever though…have fun at work and talk to me when u want…just don’t be crabby, a bitch or anything like that…k? hope to see the sweeter side of tara…eventually!!!
sorry but i would treat my old lady the same way… meybe he just wanted to talk and such. it takes a few secoinds to send a text message or maybe you should have told him about your day or maybe called him… just a thought. if you dont want anything to do with him tell him.
You would text message your woman saying “I guess we’re not talking anymore” when you know she’s at work and could possibly be busy?? Why?? It’s not like you don’t know that she’s at work… I don’t know maybe it’s just me that thinks this is not OK to just assume that the person is ignoring you… .Not to mention that text messages aren’t exactly the most reliable means to get a hold of someone… I’ve been known to get text messages DAYS after the person sent them.
are you kidding me??? i did tell him that. i talked to him on the phone and said we would talk later, he said he would be online (his phone doesnt work at his house) at 10. this happened at 11. i have to get up at 6 so im trying to go to bed. the vic was supposed to help me sleep better. Hes not even my boyfriend and hes treating me like this? oh hell no. i aint puttin up with no mans bullshit that isnt my man.
lol shes off the handle!
she told me if i go out with this guy on saturday she might shoot me.
shit, id should probably shoot myself if i did.
yeah he seems a bit over the edge, and alittle too controlling for my style. Im more the independant type…you do your thing and ill do mine. I dont like guys blowing up my cell phone every half hour or if i dont answer, hitting redial 20 times in a row til i get pissed off enough that i answer the phone.
i did that and that makes me a bitch. everything i do makes me a bitch.
haha its a lose lose!
only thing that scares me is i dont trust people. and dude is big…i dont know anyone to whoop on him if need be. hes 6’7 and and probably about 265 pure muscle. i dont know him that well to judge on a reaction if i tell him to hit the road.
bat and a gun never let me down just quit answering your phone / talking to him and he’ll get the hint. ive done that shit to a fair amount of psycho women and it worked.
If you’re looking for a big dude for protection or something thats cool but if you are afraid…then why are you even considering going out with him? I know plenty of big dudes and roid rage is nothing to be taken lightly. Ive seen it in action.
im not really scared. you just never know. you see all kinds of shit that people pull after years of knowing someone. Im just saying I dont know him all that well, so who knows. Just being more cautious, than scared.
You have known this guy for how long? A few weeks? Drop that dude like a hot potato!!! Seriously. Tell him to get the hell away and leave you alone. Someone who is texting, messaging this shit…sheesh, imagine what he’d be like in person in an argument? F that. Get away from him asap. Who needs that crap? Tell him it’s over, and if he starts bothering/stalking you, get a restraining order. There are plenty of decent men out there, why mess with an idiot like that???
