i’m glad we got the insight of a 20(?) year old girl on prenuptual agreements.
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you should know, living in the north hills, how many messy divorces around us could have been made so much smoother with a pre-nup. even if you have NOTHING, you need to cover your ass. what happens if a couple years into the relationship you do something to drastically increase your worth? say a relative dies and you’re the beneficiary, or you amass a nice pile of rental property… and then get divorced… is anyone other than you entitled to any of your shit?
be a real conservative: fight the entitlement mentality and KEEP YOUR SHIT.
you are only 23? maybe 24… what does age have to do with anything?
I will not be a part of a pre-nup… nor will I feel the need to be a part of a pre-nup. I think that if I am asked to sign a pre- nup, the he doesn’t think the marriage is going to last- and that is when I’m going to question the relationship I am in.
If you in love and its true- you will not feel the need for a pre-nup… because the thought of divorce will never even cross your mind. To sign a pre-nup is one foot in divorce court… IMO.
Good thing we have a 23 year old who still enjoys throwing up and publicly humiliating himself suggesting to me age has anything to do with what I know about pre-nups.
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I can kind of agree with him, I have seen…living in Fox Chapel a few divorces which have gone off with out a hitch due to a pre nup and have also seen bloody ones where women have taken the house, cars and everything. I’m not sure how I feel about a prenup but I would defintely have a problem with marrying a girl and her not taking my name
it boils down to a poor decision… why marry someone that you’ll have to deal with shit like that in the future… maybe it’s a good lesson to make better desicions more often?
if she has an issue with this then you may want to think about youre relationship and if its really worth the hassle cause it may just end shortly. little problems tend to lead into full out issues.
kids names arent always important. my last name is actually the name of my father’s mom not his dad. but the wife should take the name of her husband. it shows respect to the family she just married into. her using her name is this new age bull shit and shows disrespect to the family.
for the kids the last name could be spilt, using a certain name if it ends for the boy, just matters. in the end the kids are yours no matter what name they carry but you want to show signs of your family with the wife having youre last name
prenups are a must. today ppl are court happy, they are out there to fuck everyone at any time. i see it whats her’s is her’s and whats mine is mine. what we do as a couple we spilt. if she has tons of money let her have it, I didnt earn it so why should i be entitled to it?
seriously think about this Jeremy if she is hard up on this now you may have issues down the line
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