I certainly understand that and empathize with it. However I think that in many cases it’s the parents emotional attachment to their children and their desire to shield/protect them from the outside world that makes them OVERPROTECT them, and then when they ARE out on their own in social situations, they end up just going with the flow since they’re not prepared for it.
It’s the parents natural instinct to protect.
It’s the teenager’s natural instinct to aspire for independence.
It’s EVERYONE’s natural instinct to fuck. (scientists are currently seeking what happens to adult females genetic makeup once gold/diamond combinations are strapped around finger as to sex drive).
Genetically, we’re barely beyond cavemen. To deny it is to deny our identity.