Civic shifter bushing

So of course I bought the first part I saw on ebay and its not really the one I need.

This is what I bought:
http://www.carpartswholesale.com/images/parts_100/energy_susp/161102G.jpg

I need the bushing that goes into the actual shifter (and maybe the one that goes onto the tranny) and I cant find it anywhere. I installed the above parts but it didnt really help…

I want to keep the stock shifter, the bushing is just gone…

Can someone utilize the internet better than me and find what I need?

Thanks

go to a honda dealer. Those are only about $20

http://www.hondaautomotiveparts.com/auto/jsp/mws/prddisplay.jsp?inputstate=5&catcgry1=CIVIC&catcgry2=1997&catcgry3=2DR+EX&catcgry4=KA5MT&catcgry5=SHIFT+LEVER
http://www.hondaautomotiveparts.com/auto/jsp/mws/catimgs/13S020_B34.gif

2-#5’s I guess?

Is there no aftermarket support for this part? Seems like Energy Suspension should make this part but I havent found much.

only this really:
http://i23.ebayimg.com/03/i/001/33/58/791c_1.JPG
http://cgi.ebay.com/ebaymotors/Shifter-bushings-92-93-94-95-96-97-98-99-00-Honda-Civic_W0QQitemZ350180872422QQcmdZViewItemQQptZMotors_Car_Truck_Parts_Accessories?hash=item350180872422&_trksid=p4506.c0.m245&_trkparms=72%3A1205|65%3A12|39%3A1|240%3A1318

everything else seems to be what I already bought, which was barely worn compared to the bushing right at the bottom end of the shift lever. Maybe a sealed bearing would work? But I think that may rattle a lot. ugh, I dont get why its not offered, maybe because everyone just buys a short shifter that has a new one in it?