it interests me how you are so in tune with the inner workings of the 14 year old female mind. How do you know what their motivations are? there used to be quite a few 14-16 year old girls that used to come to my house to attend parties my little brother would throw. They were all sexually active, and seemed to be doing it for the same reasons everyone else was… because its fun and enjoyable. Not to be “glamorous” or whatever.