ask tiger?
I’m not married.
Just sayin’
it takes balls to break up with someone you dont necessarily hate and still kind of want to be with. sure if you are sleeping around then its obvious you shouldnt be together, but why not have your cake and eat it too for as long as possible? (just playing devils advocate, this is not how I feel)
Haha and there it is… A common theme on this site is people always bickering how this generation is the generation of entitlement and when we want something we just take it…
This situation is no different.
In my eyes, believer or not, every moral argument comes down to religion. I dont care if you are religious or not, the one thing religion did right was instill morals (usually by fear) into people. These morals became the basis of law and the proper way to conduct yourself. Everytime someone on here says “Fuck god, fuck the afterlife, religion is stupid but I was raised with morals and I choose to do what I feel is right,” I just want to laugh my ass off at them… If you dont believe there is any consequence for what society considers your inappropriate actions, then why dont you break every rule you can get away with. Shoplift when you know you wont get caught, cheat when you can, throw your friends under the bus if need be, steal your neighbors shit and let your dog shit on his lawn… LOOK OUT FOR #1 and absolutely always vote for socially liberal and economically conservative because after all, youre the only person in the world who matters.
Granted, there are people on here who do, do that (maybe a majority of people) but tell me how fucked up life will be when the entire world adopts this way of thinking.
i don’t know… i still open doors and pull out chairs, so i guess i’m just too old old fashioned to justify sleeping with someone you don’t want to be with. I know I won’t win an argument based on those morals because the majority of society feels exactly how you just stated, so i won’t try.
Oh and the “i was hurt so that’s how i justify being a d-bag to future significant others” is really pathetic. Stop being a bitch, man up and move on.
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and no, i’m not saying sleeping around is a bad thing, it’s just not for me based on what i said… If you want to be a man-whore, all the power to you, just don’t try to pretend that you’re not a man-whore by “dedicating” yourself to someone through a relationship, just to cheat on them.
exactly. I am done sleeping around with random girls, done enough of that to realize its not worth the hassle.
for the first time in my life I have been able to say no to a girl, even when she was basically naked and definitely ready to go. no thanks whore, i’d rather not.
Haha, thought I was gay the first time I did the same thing… Im not a “love the chase” kind of guy but way too much goes into looking for sex when youre single. I much rather have consistent sex with someone who you develop a sexual chemistry with rather than a slam piece who wont let you put it in her butt because shes never had a boyfriend who taught her to do it lol.
this.
and this.
once i make the CHOICE to commit, i’m loyal. to a fault.
that said, i’ve mos def been cheated on, only to find out long after the fact.
haha, def +1 on the piitb, sooooo true.
actually, +10 on all of it. sums it up fairly well.
havent cheated, will not cheat… but it’s pretty easy when you dont find anyone else more attractive than your own wife anyways.
Aww you’re giving me a cavity.
What about hooking up with the cheater?..
Yep. If you don’t practice not to want to cheat, then you won’t be able to just “switch it off” when you’re married. It just doesn’t work like that.
Now, breaking up with the girl and sexing some other girl within minutes is absolutely not cheating, it’s just insensitive, so before that discussion comes up :gtfo:
you’re right, and it is absolutely 100x better than just cheating on someone, regardless if insensitive.
never have, never will. its just a rotten thing to do
I’ve never banged someone else while I was in a relationship, but I did cheat on one ex, twice. But how I justified it was that he cheated on me first, which obviously isn’t right. Then he banged out some nasty fucking fat skanky sloppy alcoholic slut bag, and then she hooked up with one of the dudes I cheated on my ex with. UGH.
I really don’t think I’d cheat ever again, I just didn’t know how to break up with him.
But I’ll help you cheat on your gf. 
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does it still count if she broke up with you? please say yes. lol
ghey.
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double points! triple if it’s her friend or family member.
I think it comes down to the particular situation. If you’re in a good relationship with someone who is awesome then cheating is like why even bother, especially if you know it will only hurt the other if it were ever to be found out. But when you’re just settled into one of those drag-on relationships where it’s all kinda worn off and now the other person is mostly just a pain in the ass then its like eh well who cares I can’t wait to get rid of this fuckbag anyways. Plus the new person might end up being a kickass replacement so its almost an incentive to get out there and find someone better. And no relationship will survive if the sex sucks. If she’s lousy in the sack its virtually a guarantee that sooner or later I’m gonna be banging her friends
But also we do live in the age of instant gratification in this county, and for a lot of people you combine that with the increasingly popular obsessive opportunist mentality and all we’re left with is a society of heartless sharks looking to do whatever or whoever it takes to get ahead (ie-find someone better looking/more exciting/more $$/etc). People go out and fuck up something really good without thinking it through only to lament once its too late. Its the grass-is-greener thing. I know so many people that jump from one relationship to another trying desperately to find someone better but they’re never happy.
I think the mentality of what our culture has become has a lot to do with it, opportunist by definition means one who is never satisfied and always looking for something better
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