my fiance is an attractive girl with red hair, so you could see where this goes… you walk into a bar, and drunk dudes love to ask the obligatory “does the carpet match the drapes” question.
this tends to make her uncomfortable, and justifiably so. she has a ring on her finger, and most guys with the perceptive capabilities of a 3rd grader can notice that. more often than not, i turn it around by making some kind of witty/joking/friendly remark back to them, in which i include the fact that she is my fiance.
with that being said, i understand your sentiments, because i hate it when people show outward disrespect towards her, and indirect disrespect towards me (as its obvious i am with her). i cant tell you that the thought of really letting it rip on one of these guys hasnt crossed my mind, but i make a conscious choice to make people laugh and diffuse the situation.
if things really did get that bad, i would immediately leave the bar or restaurant. frankly, its not worth getting into an altercation with people that will do nothing but attempt to drag you and your girl down to their scumbag level.
i do understand your emotions, but get them under control. you will respect yourself more for taking charge of the situation and handling it in a positive way.
This happens all the time with my gf, and it’s just not worth it to start shit. She’s not an attention whore, and she knows when a guy is being scumbag, so if your gf is anything like mine, you guys will just ignore them.
my fiance is an attractive girl with red hair, so you could see where this goes… you walk into a bar, and drunk dudes love to ask the obligatory “does the carpet match the drapes” question.
this tends to make her uncomfortable, and justifiably so. she has a ring on her finger, and most guys with the perceptive capabilities of a 3rd grader can notice that. more often than not, i turn it around by making some kind of witty/joking/friendly remark back to them, in which i include the fact that she is my fiance.
with that being said, i understand your sentiments, because i hate it when people show outward disrespect towards her, and indirect disrespect towards me (as its obvious i am with her). i cant tell you that the thought of really letting it rip on one of these guys hasnt crossed my mind, but i make a conscious choice to make people laugh and diffuse the situation.
if things really did get that bad, i would immediately leave the bar or restaurant. frankly, its not worth getting into an altercation with people that will do nothing but attempt to drag you and your girl down to their scumbag level.
i do understand your emotions, but get them under control. you will respect yourself more for taking charge of the situation and handling it in a positive way.
my fiance is an attractive girl with red hair, so you could see where this goes… you walk into a bar, and drunk dudes love to ask the obligatory “does the carpet match the drapes” question.
this tends to make her uncomfortable, and justifiably so. she has a ring on her finger, and most guys with the perceptive capabilities of a 3rd grader can notice that. more often than not, i turn it around by making some kind of witty/joking/friendly remark back to them, in which i include the fact that she is my fiance.
with that being said, i understand your sentiments, because i hate it when people show outward disrespect towards her, and indirect disrespect towards me (as its obvious i am with her). i cant tell you that the thought of really letting it rip on one of these guys hasnt crossed my mind, but i make a conscious choice to make people laugh and diffuse the situation.
if things really did get that bad, i would immediately leave the bar or restaurant. frankly, its not worth getting into an altercation with people that will do nothing but attempt to drag you and your girl down to their scumbag level.
i do understand your emotions, but get them under control. you will respect yourself more for taking charge of the situation and handling it in a positive way.
happens to me all the time, just roll with it, normally it bugs me but just be happy shes with you and let the dbags keep trying, soimetimes its more fun watching them fail then getting pissed
bottom line, who’s hitting it? oh right, you are so fuck them, they arent worth the time
I’m not the jealous type… I think it’s funny when guys hit on her and I’m with her, it’s almost complementing me
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Yes you are the jealous type. Because if it didn’t bother you, then you would have ignored the guys staring at your GF and nothing would have happened :shrug:
i agree but disagree… i have gotten into a scuffle and it truly had nothing to do with the girl who was present… more or less of the guestures from the asshole who started with me. regardless. i didnt want to look like I couldnt handle myself and I was in an angry mood from the get go that night. outcome wasnt that serious… but it had NOTHING to do with the girl. Disclaimer. alcohol was involved too. o well… fighting was so last year… or whenever i drink to much, not that I ever fight. im a pussy
Meh, I think you guys that are responding are just reading my first post, read all of them and then respond.
the fight did not stem from them staring…but insted, from them making threats
