you could always get custom gloves that have leather on the inside and cotton on the outside, that way you are still getting the leather experience while not damaging the wheel
Aren’t you rich enough to be able to either buy a new car ever few years, or at a minimum just replace the leather parts that get worn?
In all seriousness, it’s wear and tear. All the leather care I’ve dealt with has been aimed at keeping it from drying out rather than preventing the evidence of being used.