Nice Restaurants in WNY

So the gf and I have been fumbling ideas of where we would like to go for dinner for our anniversary. I’ve had people tell me different places to go and such and really need help deciding. I never go to “nice” restaurants- our bill is usually 30-40 bucks for the two of us (Think Coles, bullfeathers, Panos, etc.) so we want to go somewhere more upscale for the occasion.

Guidelines:

about 25-35 dollar plates
No Italian
Good ambiance (I don’t want some slob eating his dinner on my shoulder, I don’t want to hear other people’s conversations because I’m so close to them).
And of course good food

Suggestions already:

Shamus- one of my favorite places that I’ve only been to once
Oliver’s
Daniels in hamburg
The Roycroft

Anything else? Please help. If nothing jumps out to me from others experiences than ill just throw the top three in a hat and pick.